2006-10-15 22:08:53 · 14 answers · asked by shortie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I'd say it's time to find a new group of friends. If they can't except you for who you are then what good are they to you. You shouldn't have to be somebody your not just to fit in. I know that in school it's important to be in a popular crowd, but you also shouldn't change who you are to be in that crowd. In the long run your only hurting yourself. Instead of them ditching you, you should ditch them and hang out with people who will except you for the person you are. Good Luck
2006-10-15 22:17:31 · answer #1 · answered by Esther V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey always be the same as you are. I can very well understand your problem. The only solution is go thru the way they do and then get them controlled. Just under estimate those guys. Never think they are superior to by any way. Everyone will have weak point and strike them at those points. Also get urslf with good friends who love you.
2006-10-15 23:01:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they don't like you for the real you then they are not your real friends and would be better of without them. I have learnt that it is better to have a couple really good friends who I can totally relax around then a whole bunch of friends that I have to pretend around. Be yourself, if they don't like U ditch them and make an effort to meet people that like you for you.
2006-10-15 22:23:19 · answer #3 · answered by mountain girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think we all so this to some degree to fit in. Are you still in high school? After those years you learn to just be yourself more.
2006-10-15 22:15:09 · answer #4 · answered by winkcat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ditch them..
they not ur friends
find a new circle of friends who can accept u as u r
2006-10-15 22:16:18 · answer #5 · answered by fallforniky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How does it benefit you to surround yourself with people that like you for what you show them as opposed to surrounding yourself with people that love you for who and what you are?
Better to be yourself and have one true friend...than be someone else have lots of phoney friends.
2006-10-15 22:14:01 · answer #6 · answered by Warrior 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself , if they don;t like you as you are , YOU DITCH THEM , because you don't need those type of people for freinds. REAL FREINDS / LOVERS ECT. Love you as you are. No Matter what.
2006-10-15 22:23:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
never try to b someone else. b as u r. if u change what will b the diff between others n u? i request u frm all my heart plz dont try this.
2006-10-15 23:55:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, then they are not good ones, move on to better ones and for goodness sake, improve the spelling.
2006-10-15 22:18:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you shouldn't be friends with them if you can't be yourself. friends are meant to like you for who you are not what they want you to be and if you can't be yourself around them then they obviously aren't your friends. i suggest you find a new group of people to be around other wise you won't be happy.
2006-10-15 22:20:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋