Well the story is I liked this lad for ages and then he snog one of my friends so I just got over him, now every so often he will text me asking how I am but then when I see him he wont say anything or he has got a new girlfriend. He text me on Saturday and I was texting him all night while I was out with friends. I seen him that night as I was walking home and he was asking why I aint been in the pub he goes in for ages, and how I was doing....? Does he like me or is he just looking for someone better? Its doing my head in because I will get over him and then he will text me out the blue. I meet all these nice guys but never go anywhere with them because I cant get the other guy out my head!!
2006-10-15 21:53:23 · 15 answers · asked by Angelkiss85 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
SmoothRider can I just tell you he was the one texting me while I was out so read the question carefully before you start slaggin me off!
2006-10-15 22:29:00 · update #1
I've seen this a million times before with my girlfriends and trust me, a situation like this will only drive you mad. Continue being friendly towards the guy, but it's time to look elsewhere. I know he's all you can think about right now, but you have to force yourself to back off. When he texts you send him cordial but short replies. Go out with other guys and pretty soon you'll laugh about the fact that you were ever so concerned with him.
2006-10-15 23:02:14 · answer #1 · answered by Little Girl Blue 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cant a guy be a friend that asks how you are and likes being around you,without fancying you?
If it was a girl,you wouldn`t expect that,but believe it or not,male and females can be friends forever,which is a much better relationship,than being together and arguing etc.
Stop harrassing him with texts,exspecially when he is out,that is his choice and you need to get over it.
2006-10-15 22:22:57 · answer #2 · answered by asmoothrider 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Kim
forget about him girl, he could be trying in on and then just go off again. Stick with your own friends and the nice boys you are meeting girl. don't text him back unless you want to stay friends with him
2006-10-15 22:09:00 · answer #3 · answered by chass_lee 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't want you honey, but he wants you to want him. Typical male!!!! Let him go, move on, he is playing games with you. Even if you did get together, could you trust him......?? Find yourself a decent bloke, they do exist, honest!! All the Best xx
2006-10-15 21:58:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, and he knows it! Forget him. Ignore him. Sounds like he just comes to you, when he's out of other options! Respect yourself. Only then will others respect you.
2006-10-15 21:57:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him. he's not in it for anything. Maybe cause he knows you're always there for him. Go out and have some fun!
2006-10-15 21:55:44 · answer #6 · answered by Nicky 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you continue with 'Playing the Game,' you'll both continue 'the Game.'
So STOP playing....
and you'll 'stop doing your Own Head in.'
Sash.
2006-10-16 02:04:06 · answer #7 · answered by sashtou 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he person who ever invented text messaging should be shot it can get you into so much trouble
2006-10-15 22:01:24 · answer #8 · answered by Big hands 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try not replying his messages. See where he go from there? If he really likes you...he'll work on it...
2006-10-15 21:59:15 · answer #9 · answered by Aranel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont think this guy likes, likes you, i think he just wants to be your friend!!!
2006-10-16 00:03:50 · answer #10 · answered by !x! Sxc Lil.C !x! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋