I broke up with my boyfriend of three and a half years about 4 months ago.....originally i thought i was over it but he has been creeping back into my head and my heart more and more. We had a relativley good relationship but near the end was a lot of fighting and resentment between us. He was a bad communicator and tended to pick fights over the littlest things. Now I am thinking I made the biggest mistake of my life, I was really close to his family and I think seeing them recently has brought back a few good memories. We havent seen each other for three months. And also I am scared that he might not want me back either....what should I do? It felt so right at the time but now it feels so wrong.
2006-10-15 21:48:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
WE broke up because we were unhappy and in a rut.....things werent moving forward.....but time can be the worst enemy because its amazing fow much harder it is for me to remember the bad times than it is to remember the good......but i keep asking myself if we had worked a bit harder it may have been ok.
2006-10-15 22:02:51 · update #1
Go with your heart. Maybe see him over some dinner and see how things go. Time can be your enemy it can also be your friend. Maybe in the last 4 months. I highly doubt it but it is possible. It could also be the familiarity. I went back to my ex because I thought I loved him and realized I was just familiar with him. Everything about him was familiar to me. Make sure your feelings are real so you dont get hurt.
2006-10-15 21:54:13 · answer #1 · answered by ~MandiNic~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing is to decide what made you break up with him in the first place. if it is something you can live with then try to go back... but if it is not don't go back. In a relationship there are always ups and downs... whatever you fought about will come back some day and you might need to think whether it is worth spending more time with this person or not!!! Remember that you will be spending your time with him not his family...
2006-10-16 04:57:44 · answer #2 · answered by y_me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel i was with a guy for 10 yrs when we split it took a while but I got over him at first I would do any thing just to say hi to him eventualy i moved on we are still friends my grown kids still consider him and his family as there own family dont go back just yet give it time you broke up for a reason and you need to give your self time and to know your true feelings and that you are not just lonely .
2006-10-16 04:56:13 · answer #3 · answered by shelly f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ermm... Wat's actually cause both of you broke up? if it's small matter then
you can try to get close by and try sees he still love you or not but remember if he's already got new girl BETTER don't go near. Have a new life of your own...
2006-10-16 04:54:12 · answer #4 · answered by peter71 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we all make mistakes
2006-10-16 04:54:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋