is attention from a guy enough to want to leave your husband and family or would the guy need to be better looking or maybe bigger between the legs than your current husband?
2006-10-15 21:37:11 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would not leave mine.
2006-10-15 23:01:26 · answer #1 · answered by kelsey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
attention makes you feel good but remember why you married your husband and had a family with him. there was something about your husband that made you want to spend the rest of your life with him. look back at what you have put into your relationship with your husband , are you willing to throw all that away for this man. how long have you known this man ? and what person in their right mind would want to leave there family for a man. family is forever men come and go
2006-10-16 08:01:05 · answer #2 · answered by greeneyed_angel362002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not a chance! While attention from other guys is always an ego boost, I would never leave my hubby because of it. And I know this is going to be hard for guys to believe, but it's really NOT the size of the ship.... oh and in my eyes no one is better looking than my guy :)
This is how I feel about it honestly...all kidding aside:
I met and married my husband when I was 19 years old...I'm now 32, he is my life, my hero, my knight in shining armor. While he does have his faults, and honestly, who doesn't?, he is mine and my world would not continue to turn without him.
Now that said, I have had attention from other men, and while it is fun to joke around with them and flirt, no way is it enough to make me even think about leaving.
Of course I can not speak for other women, because their are some who are truly unhappy in their relationship, so if this is your girl you're speaking of, I guess you really have to take her personality and her happiness into account.
But as for me I'm completly 100 percent still in love with my husband even after 13 years.
2006-10-16 07:54:16 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ Sparks♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not leave my husband for anyone in this world. Attention from other men are always a compliment for women but taking it the next step would most likely depend on the love and attention that she is getting at home. If you are giving her the world and she wants the universe you are most likely never going to be able to make her happy. Maybe she is just not the type to settle down. Best of luck to you!!
2006-10-16 05:10:29 · answer #4 · answered by SareBare 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No way no attention from any man could take the feelings and love i feel for my husband it has to be something else that starts those feelings to dicipate. The feelings of love dont just go away for me because some stupid jerk tells me im pretty or pays a little attention to me....If a woman is seeking the attention of other men I feel its only because she wants to feel that attention from her husband and it has probably been discussed and discussed over and again and he still wont respond to the problem or hes paying an awful lot of attention to something else instead of what he should be and maybe then after the feelings are already hurt and their is probably no turning back unless by some miracle he sees and admits to what he has been doing the ignoring, the deceipt itself, and probably an confession is all that will do she will respect you for it. So there it is the reasons a woman would want attention from other men.....in my opinion.....L...sorry
2006-10-16 04:55:02 · answer #5 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well it all depends on their home life. If they are not happy at home then they would probably leave in a heart beat. Size does matter but to a different degree for each women. Some women want the attention they do not get at home. Women need attention along with sex.
2006-10-16 16:29:13 · answer #6 · answered by babydove1821 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
None of the above would make me want to leave my husband.
First of all, I would have to be majorly unhappy (which I'm not) and been that way for a long time. I would have to have tried a lot of ways to fix my marriage, including counseling, before I was even willing to consider leaving him. He would have to have been treating me badly, not putting forth any real effort into the marriage, and in general, being a bad husband.
You don't throw away marriage based on attraction or lust for another man. Women can feel that at any time, but real love comes along very rarely. It's not something to toss aside the first time a tall, well built, good looking man walks by.
2006-10-16 04:43:06 · answer #7 · answered by welches_grape_jelly 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If your husband ignores you and takes you for granted, and after repeated discussions still won't try to change, that is what makes a woman look elsewhere. Usually it is just the fact of getting the attention she is not getting at home. He makes her feel beautiful and desirable. Her husband makes her feel invisible. Women need to feel cherished and loved.
2006-10-16 11:31:04 · answer #8 · answered by Lotus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly? My husband would have to be the biggest m*therf*ckin' dick for me to leave him for any of those reasons. Attention from the opposite sex means nothing. The guy giving it to you could turn out to be a total loser. If he's better looking, same deal. He could turn out to be a loser and a total d*ckwad. And as far as being well hung...it really means nothing to me, you have to know how to use it, LOL.
Everyone puts their best foot forward when you first meet them, a prince can turn into a toad after a few gettin' to know yous. For a man to come into your life and prompt you to leave your husband always leads to the same explanation...you were unhappy to begin with.
2006-10-16 07:17:23 · answer #9 · answered by olliebee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
none of these dear! its understanding, care, unconditional love frm the guy and ignorance and ill treatment, lack of fidelity from current husband.
good looks is only for the time being, size is also seasonal and passive only unconditional love stays with u, so its about how he feels for u and how long do ya know each oder. coz i feel time has a lot to do with it.
again these things are desirable only if ur husband is a rogue and cheats on u. giv him a chance if he is incapable of satisfying u yet cares for u. and rethink if u have children. for its really gonna make thm scattered.
2006-10-16 04:58:55 · answer #10 · answered by mimpi 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
None of the above! If anyone is willing to cheat on, hurt or lie to people that they "love" that is problems with themselves that have nothing to do with the family but sadly are the ones hit in the heart when it falls apart. You can only control you and your feelings kinda like being in a room full of people and feeling alone kinda thing.
2006-10-16 04:42:47 · answer #11 · answered by Dana 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋