me and my girl are having some problems she gets mad if i dont work and she gets mad if I work all the time so I stuck right now. I dont know whats going on in her head. I trying to do everything I can with out over doing it. I need some help on what i can do to get this over with and not to have arguements over and over the same time. about money and paying bills off. I the only one that works and I told her to get a job to help out.
2006-10-15 21:33:11 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You could die tomorrow, and the last thing you will remember is the last stupid fight you had with your girl over money or whatever. Do you really want to live your life playing daddy to an adult female. It sounds like your relationship is horrible, and that you both just stay together out of comfort. If I were you, I would end the relationship, yes you will miss your human electric blanket at night, but in a month or two you will be just fine. Make your life better before you become a parent, and never become a parent to someone you want to make your wife.
2006-10-15 21:40:54 · answer #1 · answered by Tibbytwinkletoes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me tell u a secret; there is no matter how u try to satisfy a woman she might just appreciate u for a moment but when there are arguemments she will bring up an unappreciative attitude; dont be decievd u Must work to make her happy and make her realise that if she wants u to cope with the bills u have to work Harder and u are doing all of that to make her happy; make sure when she is talking kdont say a word after u have taken time to do all the explanation but just be calm and go ahead with Yuor decision thats what Makes u A MAN; from the way u wrote u LOve her so much but a little secret again: there is a time u even keep LOVE aside to make your girl and yourself Happy cos sometimes too much of LOVE hurts both the guy and the Babe. somake her Happy by working Well and that will make u very Happy too but make sure u have time for her please.
2006-10-15 21:48:41 · answer #2 · answered by segsky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me that there is definetley something else going on here....Now if she cant make up her mind about you working or not well then maybe shes just miserable and needs time to work out if she wants to be in a relationship. Dont trip though just let her work it out by herself and hopefully shell just make the right decision on her own....but you cant push the issue anymore and dont ask her anymore questions o.k. it only aggrevates her. She needs to do some heavy thinking and I am willing to bet my last dollar that there is nothing you can say to make her feel better at all...so kick back and give her some room and hope for the best sounds like youve done all you can do....L
2006-10-15 21:44:10 · answer #3 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to explain to her that you need to work, especially since you are the only one working and you want to get bills paid. Suggest to her about getting at least a part time job to help out on the bills. The would leave time for you both to spend time together. If you ask me this girl doesn't know what she has. Sit down and talk to her about solutions and suggestions.
2006-10-15 21:37:58 · answer #4 · answered by cholelouise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mmmm you are in a dilema. First of all make her understand that you have to work to pay off the bills and most importantly for her to have a good life. And always take out time to be with her,this will make her feel important. Tell her nicely that it will be better for both of you financially if she work. I bet you will have less arguements if you both work.
Stick with your job,but make time for you sweet heart.
2006-10-15 21:40:08 · answer #5 · answered by The Inquisitive 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all she sounds insecure about your faithfulness to her could be from experience old boyfriend or a family member could have been cheating and hurt her talk to her about it reasure her that you love her and only her as for her working she can do day care if she doesn't want to leave the home and to earn more from it she can get info at your local human services about how to get a license she can earn a living stay at home set own hours and learn a few things about child care.
2006-10-15 21:47:26 · answer #6 · answered by shelly f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sure she doesn't trust you..coz me too is acting like that,evrytime my bf has a good job i always ask him to stop for the reason of becoming afraid that he might reject me and find other one..maybe she's afraid too that when you do have a work you will meet new colleagues and then 4gt her..just try to talk with her,,and explain everyting..give her the assurance that you wont leave her no matter wat.goodluck
2006-10-15 21:41:06 · answer #7 · answered by marichusiarot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her to a Doctor and make him explain this to her. May be there are chances of she listening to his words and then everything would change. Gud Luck
2006-10-15 21:39:11 · answer #8 · answered by Mechie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her if she has an alternative way of generating money without going to work or for her to find work and you will sit at home
2006-10-15 21:35:42 · answer #9 · answered by ntu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answered your own question. Tell her to get off the gravy train and start working or start walking.
2006-10-15 21:35:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋