hi, i am now at 24 and my partner is at 26. i think i am pregnant and test already. there got positive result. But we all are haven't settled yet (especially for him). what should we do? i am scared abortion and don't dare do it. can you give me a advise??
2006-10-15 21:05:39 · 14 answers · asked by Juliet S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Giving birth to a 10lb baby is way more scary than an abortion.
Obviously you want to give birth or you would have taken some precautionary measures to prevent it.
2006-10-15 21:09:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
purely you and your husband can settle on if the time is solid. Having a toddler now, once you're no longer financially waiting could reason some extra tension to the recent courting, yet you're marriage is going to stand tension extra beneficial than as quickly as. some human beings will inform you that financially, no time is a solid time, so which you may suck it up and do it in case you intend on having a family individuals. i'm no longer in my view married, yet I certainly have cousins who're married, and others who've been at the same time for somewhat a on an analogous time as without young ones.They take excitement in each others organization, have the liberty to flow the place and do in spite of the fact that that they had like. They take some journeys at the same time each 365 days and notice the international. They plan on having teenagers in some extra years, even nonetheless it incredibly is great to work out them fairly build a beginning place of their marriage. in case you are able to wait, in line with risk it incredibly is something to truly evaluate!
2016-12-13 09:07:44 · answer #2 · answered by pfeifer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you now have set your responsibilities in motion for the rest of your life or atleat the next 20 years. You do have other options other than abortion. It is time to grow up. I am sorry it is so soon for you. If there is a clinic near by. I would first get tested by a doctor to make sure you are preggers. No one ever said home preg. tests are always accurate.
Good Luck,
O'hock
2006-10-15 21:19:29 · answer #3 · answered by orcahock 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Youre 24 years old. have the child and raise it. abortion haunts you for life. but if yall werent talking marriage or anything before the positive test dont talk about it now. that baby is still gonna come either way. i married at 18 cuz i had my son. biggest mistake of my life. my three boys have most definitely paid the price for that mistake. just have the baby and love it with all you have. the rest will fall into place however it was intended to.
2006-10-15 21:10:57 · answer #4 · answered by rwdycwgrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I would keep the baby. Then if the man sticks around and is a good father I would marry him. I wouldnt marry for the sake of the child because if he isnt ready to settle down it is going to be who will suffer. What does he think about a baby?
2006-10-15 21:10:23 · answer #5 · answered by Mystie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was 19 when the same thing happened to me . i knew i was preg. . but was mature enough to know i didn't nned a man in my life to raise a child . but wanted this life inside me to know me . because he was created from the love two people shared . and i wanted to know what he would be when he grew up . well now that child that wasn't planned is now 33, my best friend , a state cert.fire fighter class one and 2 and a wreckcer truck operator , as well as my hero. if i wouldn't have made up my mind to give him life and help him grow , i would always wonder why i did it . why i refused to take the responsability and give him life .if you don';t want the child there are many familys out there that want a child but can't produce one . but later on in life you with always wonder. what this child look's like , does he have your great personality? is he happy . does he want to know his real parent's . myt x was adopted when he was only 6 montyh's old . and for year's after we were together he would always bring it up as to why his real folks didn't want him . and if he had any real brothers and sisters . if so did they know about him . would they know ewach other ?
2006-10-15 21:17:25 · answer #6 · answered by single-rose@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first dont get married just because your pg if your not sure about keeping the baby you can always opt for closed or open adoption but if you decide to keep the baby and have to raise the child alone it will be hard but very well worth it I know I raised 3 girls after div. and now they have kids of there own and we are very close.
2006-10-15 21:13:13 · answer #7 · answered by shelly f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get married legally and continue on doing the married things you are already doing.you both are living as though you are married so what's the fear? you and he knew you are a female and that males and females make babies, so what's the problem ? grow up kiddies and be adults,not just when you're enjoying sex.
2006-10-15 21:22:23 · answer #8 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you two must get married soon before the stomatch become more bigger and bigger..dn need to have expensive wedding jus go the marriage resgistration centre and sign the cert..tat it..
2006-10-15 21:17:13 · answer #9 · answered by Liss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your parents for help. They are responsible for your future.
2006-10-15 21:11:04 · answer #10 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋