she's got a boy friend...
2006-10-15 20:37:37 · 31 answers · asked by faithbass 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
coffee's always got a motive dont u think Whereni?
2006-10-15 20:49:04 · update #1
the reason for the break up was her religion..
2006-10-15 22:34:01 · update #2
It would depend on your feelings towards her.
Do you want her back? If yes, go for coffee.
If you know she is happy in her new relationship, would you still want her to leave him & go back with you? Sometimes when you love someone, the best thing you can do is let them go.
Would you like to remain good friends & stay in touch? If yes, go for coffee.
What was the reason you broke up for? This may have a significant factor in whether I would go.
If you were happy with your new partner, would you call your to ex to go for coffee? I would carefully consider this. I would not want to jeopardise what I have (especially if my new girlfriend made me happy).
Would going for coffee make you feel like you are second? Her current boyfriend may be her No1.
Would you have sex with her if she wanted you to? If there is no way you two will get back together, would this make her feel cheap after? Would you think she would be cheap after? That is, she would be cheating on her "boyfriend".
Only you can answer this. The choice is yours.
Life is to be enjoyed...not regretted.
2006-10-15 20:55:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-06 04:53:26 · answer #2 · answered by Darrin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is coffee all she really wants??? Or does she have a motive? Hopefully it's just to catch up on things and see hoew you are doing... Make sure you pick a place with excellent coffee....Atleast if the visit goes bad, it was not all a loss, because the coffee was GREAT!
2006-10-15 20:42:39 · answer #3 · answered by wherenai 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Go out for the coffee, even though she has a boyfriend something within her wants to spend time with you. There is a quality in you that she miss. take the time to meet her for coffee. Have a great time who knows she may want to hook back up with you.
2006-10-15 20:42:31 · answer #4 · answered by nazwats 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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This is probably the most important part. With texting, you can stop and think about what you want to say to your ex at each step of the way. Instead of reacting emotionally, you can take your time, figure out the right thing to say (I’ll give you most of it), and be strategic with your ex without saying something that you’ll regret.
2016-04-29 06:02:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why she called you - do you have wavering mind - She may repent and would like to be your friend again. No harm going and having a chat on a coffee. Think and act after hearing her.
2006-10-15 20:42:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are dating someone now. i would say talk it over with them and see how they feel about it. after all it is just coffee and he or she is an ex for a reason. if you are still single, you need to discuss with yourself the reason for going.
2006-10-15 20:39:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
She wants something. Might be simple, like something she left at your place. Maybe she misses you, maybe she has regrets. If you do decide to go, try and be prepared for just about any scenario you can think of, and more.
2006-10-15 20:47:57 · answer #8 · answered by mld m 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2017-02-20 07:56:19 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think is perfectly ok if is only out for coffee
after break off, still can be friends if there is no other hope of patching back in either parties
good luck to u
2006-10-15 20:41:20 · answer #10 · answered by Western 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋