Dear Tyler,
I've been thinking....
I have alot on my mind at the moment. I honestly think that you dont love me. You never seem like you want to spend time with me, because your alway with your friends at lunchd going to smokers corner smoking cigs or pot. well, i am just gonna say it now. You have a choice to make. It me or the drugs. i cant stand you not spending time with to get to know each other more. You dont really know anything about me. i dont know if we even belong together if we dont know anything about eachother. I am fully scared that you might choose drugs over me, but i am willing to take that chance, because thats just not sort of the life i want for myself. If you choose drugs over me then your obviously not worth it! Sooooooo i am giving you the choice to choose either giving up the drugs or its over. Choose wisely. This could be the end. Oh yeah, If your not willing to wait to have sex and respect what i want or dont want then all i would have to say is that i can no longer be with you. A relationship is not all about sexual contact or what ever you want to call ot. I cant fall for that ****. It's rediculous. I feel that your trying to get steady action from me, and you think i am willing to give it to you just like that. I can't go on like this.If you really loved me you would wait untill i feel more comfortable. I am also feeling that you are treating me good and make me feel nice so i wont squeal on you that you smoke pot. Well, you know what, I will never squeal on you. It is not my life to squeal on. It's your decisions and your mistakes. This is a decision i am making by giving you a chance to choose what you want and what is more important to you. Me or the drugs? that is the choice i am giving you. I am willing to give you the chance even though i am afraid being with out you or what you will say about me, but i am sure i can get over that some how. It won't be easy, but it is worth a shot. I am still young and i have a chance to find someone that likes me for who i am, not for sex or what ever else there are. True love is from the heart, not from the body. My age is to make my career and my own choices in life. I cant have someone pulling that back for me. I have goals in life, and i want to stick to those goals. I don't want anybody to ruin them for me. I am looking up to the future and what i want to do in life. I don't want that interfered. I am a person with feelings.
Truely Yours,
Alesha
2006-10-15 20:25:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
that's a good letter, clearly express your thinking. but you should make the expression more agressive:
sumthin like:
stop your ******* drugs or get the hell out of my ***...you moron!
2006-10-15 20:31:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Choose wisely. This could be the end. ....this could be? that sounds like you aren't sure. Be assertive-this is the end. and mean what you say. Empty promises are useless, if you tell him no more contact at all, mean it and follow through no matter how much you may miss him. You need to state your terms in the letter ie-If you choose drugs over me then we will no longer be friends, we wont hang out, we wont talk on the phone. Be very clear about what the choice he is making is.
Honestly, if he is doing drugs and presuring you for sex why would you even miss him?
you are obviously smart, so stick to what your morals are, care about your career, the purity of your body and your future,
2006-10-15 20:30:41 · answer #2 · answered by BlondeBarbie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Way to go! If I could, I'd hug you right now. That letter just earned you 1,000,000,000 Self Respect points in this game of Life. The Big Man Upstairs is releasing a huge sigh of relief. You should be proud of yourself. I know I am.
2006-10-15 20:31:46 · answer #3 · answered by NSisifo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all writing him a letter is a good way to sort out your thoughts and what you want to say but when you have it all figured out in person is the only way to communicate so you can realy explain how you feel and he can respond and as to your feelings if you are having any doubts about your relationship take a break do your own thing what ever makes YOU happy.And after awhile you will have the answer to your own question about him and his commitment to you.
2006-10-15 20:38:11 · answer #4 · answered by shelly f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you say you want to make choices in your life, don't give him the power.! you decide. drug addicts find it hard to give up so its not worth saying " its me or the drugs" cos he ain't gonna pick you and its gonna hurt more when he tells you that. respect yourself. you seem to know what you want in life, its just he doesn't and its not your place to change him. you are a sweet person and deserve so much better. so re-write your letter, or just don't bother writing it at all, and be a strong women,hold your head up high and be successful at what you want to do, cos he will only pull you down, i promise you that. all the power to you.
2006-10-15 20:40:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its a waste of time changing people. Mika angela said it better " If some one show you who they are, believe them". They are who they are, you can't be mad at them. Its unfair, to make them unhappy to make your self happy.
2006-10-15 20:35:18 · answer #6 · answered by helpful friend 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say see you soon.
Not truly.Yours
Love You is better.
2006-10-15 20:31:48 · answer #7 · answered by SKG R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is so nice that will get him on his knees iy nearly got me on mine
2006-10-15 20:42:34 · answer #8 · answered by zinja 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋