my boyfriend always leaves and goes to hang out with his friends? he never spends time with me anymore what should i do?
2006-10-15 20:18:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Girl start hanging out too.Not in the same places of course but if you know he comes home @ 2am even if you have to park around the corner after you hang out with the girls come in @ 2:10am..I bet he'll slow his self down then !!!
2006-10-15 20:20:23 · answer #1 · answered by chubbie dumplins 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
#1: Keep the "should" out of it. There are no shoulds. Its just what you want and what he wants.
#2: You obviously want a boyfriend who is your best bud, someone who likes to spend lots of time with you. That's what you want. You're not getting it with this guy. So the conclusion is ... ?
#3: Learn to act on the things that you want, rather than trying to manipulate your current situation to fit your needs. Manipulative women are like the lowest things on earth - men would take a porn sl*ut over them. Learn to be honest with yourself now. Identify what you want and make decisions to move toward it.
Good luck.
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2006-10-16 03:31:25 · answer #2 · answered by robabard 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If his friends are more important than you, he does not deserve you. Men only do what you allow them to do. If you are constantly letting him stay with you, while he's out with his boys doing God knows what, then he will keep doing it. If you want your relationship to last, you need to stand up to him and let him know how you feel. If he acts as if he could care less, then you need to let him go because he's not mature enough to handle a relationship. There are plenty of other men out there, so do not let that one treat you like crap.
2006-10-16 03:29:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband does the same. I took a stand and left for my parents' house, when he values me for what I'm worth he can come and bear the embarrassment before he makes things up with me.
2006-10-16 03:22:03 · answer #4 · answered by rinah 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Contrary to how you feel, your bf may actually feel that he spends too much time with you. Thats why he goes off with his friends. Try to give him less attention.
2006-10-16 03:33:44 · answer #5 · answered by n1tel1fe3h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm... guys are guys.. imagine when he's after you, he will spend time with you, try and touch u and......
in this case, try not to call him or "stray" away from him... see his response. IF not, really have to trash out.
Also... how much attention do you need? U need to tell him... cos guys are guys...
2006-10-16 03:23:02 · answer #6 · answered by alfahomme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you need someone to talk to contact me, that way when your boyfriend finds out what you're doing he'll start questiong you and taking interest in you again...
2006-10-17 00:01:39 · answer #7 · answered by deais74 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does he still love you? try not seeing him for couple of days so he knows that having you around makes him happy again
2006-10-16 03:20:01 · answer #8 · answered by ! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him...he obviously sets his friends as a priority...i'm not saying it's a bad thing...but he's gotta balance both...
2006-10-16 03:19:56 · answer #9 · answered by xoxcpxox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Need a new bf.
2006-10-16 03:20:32 · answer #10 · answered by Kainoa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋