5yrs me and bf.got probs coz of mobile,im jealous.we were abt to quit wen i suggest that we start over thro frienship to see if we can rebuild over.He was texting me,evrthg was ok,wen i found his cell busy he said his cousin (boy) calling!on the next day same,he got angry told im checkg he got the rite to use his mobile if i continue checkg i'll stop hear him.but duno y wen he doesnt text im completely out of myself i text alot,call his cell,at his place,etc.I asked if he loves someone else,he told me not to pester him.i asked him dat millions of times and he finally said yes.and then texted back to say even though he doesnt love anyone he will tell me he does,now i do wat i wish!wat does dat mean?im confused?plz dont tell me to move i love him,and will kill myself if he leaves me.but i want to know the truth.am i at fault?wat can i do to win him?does he really loves someone and is hidding?plz help me and dont be naughty.
2006-10-15 19:56:00 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well i need no help now coz he cheated and left me for someone else was playing with me and lied a lot.
2006-10-16 17:54:37 · update #1
I don't think there is any future in this relationship. There is too much excess baggage to make it work.
2006-10-15 19:58:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Killing yourself if he leaves will not get him back. He may think that you are a little too jealous! Ease up a bit dear and calm down! It sounds like he needs a little space for now and if you really love him then have a talk with him and give him a little space and your trust! If you do not give him any trust at all then you will lose him for sure! GOOD LUCK
2006-10-15 20:05:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are being too clingy and overwhelming. People need their space, and you acting this way is going to run him off. Give him time, and if his feelings are true, they will eventually come out. But you can't force the issue, love is natural - and you see when you tried to pressure him, it came out artificial to get you to calm down. You don't want a relationship like that, so be easy on him.
2006-10-15 19:59:36 · answer #3 · answered by ฿└ΛÇκ ĦΘŁỀ ŞЏП 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You better start thinking how to take care of yourself. Life sucks, nothing new.No warranty for happiness forever. If you get more crazy the the situation is going to get only worse.Get up to move on
2006-10-15 20:04:35 · answer #4 · answered by Toto 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are insanely jealous and that is killing your relationship. Eventually it will destroy any relationship that you have with normal people. I suggest that you get yourself to a psychologist because you have some deep insecurity issues which are manifesting themselves through your jealous behaviour. If you want to keep your boyfriend and peace of mind...you'll get professional help.
2006-10-15 21:33:03 · answer #5 · answered by DrSH 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious? You would kill yourself over somebody? I thin you need to check into a mental ward and try and figure out what the hell happened to you that you would give up your life because some one is no longer interested in you.
2006-10-15 20:05:54 · answer #6 · answered by droops 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't think you need advice from n e 1.... b cuz u already know for yourself... don't believe the hype, he got some1 else..... just play the smae game and get or act like u got some1 too... and see what happen's....
2006-10-15 20:05:32 · answer #7 · answered by thetrueststud 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nicely, i think of you may desire to settle your concepts and assure your self you ate 5 cookies and weren't cheated via the bastards at Sainsburys [: and with regard to the pear cider, tell them in the event that they touch it...They die [: perchance this is style of harsh yet, it would to the trick ;]
2016-12-16 08:24:46 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wanted to suggest but you already said that you wont leave him..but that's what you should do n what he wish..clearly he doesnt want you in his life anymore..move on...if you guys really meant for each other, you will be with him...
2006-10-15 20:02:08 · answer #9 · answered by fallforniky 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi there.....frm all ur storu i think he is n't lov any body...jus because of urs incises he said u dat..and if u try to let go in some way,some manner,i think this will not happent nxt time.....
2006-10-15 20:00:00 · answer #10 · answered by shailesh g 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋