On her b-day would you get angry?
2006-10-15 19:55:54 · 21 answers · asked by Direktor 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
What if he told you he did when he did it...and said it was only a friendly gesture?
2006-10-15 19:56:37 · update #1
Unless it was to a female relative (and an older and/or unattractive one, at that), I'd think there was something fishy.
1. Men hardly remember to get cards for their own wives, so if they are getting them, it is for someone significant.
2. Flowers are a very intimate gift in North American culture, second only to lingerie.
3. Telling a spouse about another person or event does NOT suddenly render that person or event harmless.
2006-10-15 20:08:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, she may be his good friend.... so no harm... be fran and ask him if u have doubts.... in a friendly manner of course not like questions...... are u having an affair etc,,,,,, in a subtle way say don't mind it i just want to be sure and this came into mind and i am just speaking my mind... lets just talk,..... we are friends and i hope if there is anything u don't like about me and i don't like about u we'll tell echother..... so we have the right to tell eachother......... and then u can tell him that u may be right in sending flowers to her but i don't really like the idea... i hope its a friendly gesture right and nothing else? if he is an intelligent guy he will get the idea and will definately tell u that its just flowers nothing more rthan that.... and if he is cheeating on u... then he may blast.... so see for urself.... if things go out of control tell him to just keep quite and try to woo him with all the best qualities u have give him more attention try to look sexy all the times nd pep up ur life... try different things to have sex... tell him that u want him..... sex is one of the languages of love... so try it out.... see u r his wife he can run but can't hide..... try to bring all ur real sself out.....
2006-10-16 03:08:14 · answer #2 · answered by Preet_Answers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how close of a friend they are .... and if they are really that close, you would have met her & would be feeling fine about the flowers & card thingy....
If you're not comfortable, then get angry... what you waiting for?!?!
2006-10-16 03:00:17 · answer #3 · answered by Rin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the situation. Is she someone who will send business to him? Are they really really old friends? If she is just someone he "knows", then the red flag should go up. I would be pissed either way actually. If my husband is sending anyone flowers it better be for a funeral. He has never been one to send flowers. Go with your gut.
2006-10-16 03:06:46 · answer #4 · answered by tiredinaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes definitely i wouldnt like to share my love with any other one else especially woman!for me he cud be cheating and will obviously tell u its a friendly gesture,be on ur guard there could be more behind ur back.nowadays we cant trust blindly.b strong dr
2006-10-16 03:00:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES YES YES, if it wasent a group of people all putting together for workmate ect. sounds very fishy to me.why would he take the trouble. i never heard that a man and woman can remain just friends, unless of course shes a family friend of both you.
2006-10-16 03:09:14 · answer #6 · answered by Bubbles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends in the situation like if shes a close friend of u guys and if he told u about also if he doesnt do the same or better 2 u then i might. it all depends u know. but i would
2006-10-16 02:58:04 · answer #7 · answered by Daniel S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends...was it his mom? Because you're asking, I take it she wasn't the woman who changed his diapers all those years. Be angry, but don't explode. Just let him know you're hurt and you'd like to know why.
2006-10-16 03:10:57 · answer #8 · answered by NSisifo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wont get angry. I know him well and he is trustworthy. He never ever go to another lady with a bad idea of flirting.
2006-10-16 03:00:34 · answer #9 · answered by Rammohan 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
of course no,if u love ur hubby u know he'll never hurt and make u angry
2006-10-16 03:03:18 · answer #10 · answered by JEANNY G 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋