I just went on a second date with this woman on Satuday night. It consisted of dinner at a really nice restaurant and a movie we both enjoyed. She was talkative and enthusiastic, and I believe she really enjoyed our evening, as did I. We did not talk at all the next day; I made a point of not calling, so as to avoid sounding overeager. Also, I did not go for a goodnight kiss, even though it was our second date. Your thoughts?
Anyway, all that being said, I've been struck with the bright idea of sending her flowers tomorrow. She works late, which means she wouldn't be home in time for a delivery, so I wanna take the gamble and send them to her workplace. It'll be a simple arrangement, like a bouquet - I figure a dozen red roses would be too bold a statement.
Yea or nay?
2006-10-15 19:52:23 · 14 answers · asked by kevinb671 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Also, I should mention since someone brought it up: I did give her a kiss on the cheek . . .
2006-10-15 20:03:23 · update #1
I would definitely send her flowers, but not red roses, but maybe yellow and pink roses. They are nice, but not too presumptuous.
2006-10-15 20:00:23 · answer #1 · answered by Meg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well women do love flower's, but you are sending mixed emotions. I know if we went out twice and the second date you didn't kiss me on the check at least or call the next day or so, I would think you weren't interested !!! You may want to step up your game and send flower's besides roses are cheaper this time of the year.. Go for the roses..They don't have to be red you know .
2006-10-15 20:01:46 · answer #2 · answered by chubbie dumplins 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do it. When I was dating my husband he found my car at work and put a single rose under the windshield. WOW Things like that women love. Send the flowers.
2006-10-15 19:57:41 · answer #3 · answered by Tedi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not calling on the second day - BIG mistake... unless you have your own game plan.
I think it's sweet that you did not go for the kiss on the second date but i sure hope you gave her lots of hugges and holding hands and lovy dovy stuff...
Flowers at work - sweet but maybe not red roses... Why not lilies? They smell great too....
2006-10-15 19:57:46 · answer #4 · answered by Rin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Destiny..women love a chase at times...a challenge... so yes..send the flowers..let her know you were thinking about her..it will melt her! She'll be calling you grinning from ear to ear...Red roses are good..do you happen to know her favorite color of favorite flower, just to personalize it a little bit..
Good luck
How thoughtful...
2006-10-15 20:00:22 · answer #5 · answered by Tru-Gem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be tru to yourself, follow your hart in this mather. If it's right all will be well. She will now more about who you are. Advice from anyone on mathers of the hart are nothing more then there harts speaking. Look inside for this kind of qwestion, the real, tru answer is there and nowere els.
Live well my friend
2006-10-15 19:59:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sound like an excellent idea, also add on the card another date and place for her to meet you for a dinner again... keep me posted on what happens next, lol
2006-10-15 19:58:39 · answer #7 · answered by thetrueststud 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definatly
2006-10-15 19:55:05 · answer #8 · answered by gg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah. I think you did everything right. You didn't seem too into her..which is a good sign because women like a chase sometimes..and I think it would be a fantastic suprise! I say YES
2006-10-15 19:55:00 · answer #9 · answered by Destiny Jay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
rose not yet try something a little softer not something that says that you are in love with her already try not to send the wrong picture
2006-10-15 19:58:33 · answer #10 · answered by channy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋