Ok so hopefully u all have listened to Usher's song "yeah"; if not then just listen to it on my page. Cool song aye? Well I think it is interesting, but the most facinsating part in it that is
" we want a lady in the street but a freak in the bed to say"
A cultured and polite and nice and femininie woman who is "nice" to walk along right?? And then who is dominant , knows what she wants and gets what she wants in bed... or the man gets what he wants ???
Our society puts pressure on women to "perform" for the man, but does she get anything in return. Or if she is too frisky then "may be she is a b*#@%" or do man like a woman who knows what she wants and knows how to get it....
Some men , however, may think otherwise, no??
wats the message. Well there are mixed messages.
hey ladies lets start the conversation.....ummm men join in pliz
Anyone??
2006-10-15 19:40:00 · 12 answers · asked by rajni l 2 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
I agree with you that the pressures placed upon a woman make you feel as if you have to have three different personalities or more....where as the Man has always been considered the "Hunter" the "Provider", and this Stereotyping is not right.
I believe that a Woman are all of those and more....we just have to know when to bring out the other.
Sometimes it gets frustrating. You made a good point.
2006-10-15 22:51:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Street Freak
2016-11-11 07:32:42 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah,Yeah ,Yeah ,Yeah.Quiet frankly i think a freak out of bed is as good as a freak in bed. As good as a lady in the streets which is boring to have a lady in the bed. No need to have manners girl just tell me how you like it.....some men &woman battle with this cos they cannot verbalise what it is they want or looking for both in bed and in "the streets".
2006-10-15 23:13:30 · answer #3 · answered by Cube 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think the pressure is put on both sexes.We both want a lady/ gentleman in public.But in the bedroom we want an animal. Many men feel the pressure to give a lasting performance.
For most relationships to work the couples should match.Both should get what they want .And be sensitive to each others needs.All give and no take will only create resentment in the long run.
2006-10-15 23:16:42 · answer #4 · answered by eva b 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I can't speak for all males, but yeah you are looking for that school teacher during the day and that tigress at night. That is the mans ego. But some men can't handle that, they may begin to wonder, where did she learn those freaky things? If you're in a healthy relationship you will bring those passionate feeling out of each other. It takes time and plenty of patience which we have plenty of. Two words Karma Sudra.......
2006-10-16 02:54:24 · answer #5 · answered by silkutjaguar 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well call me old fashioned but I think you need to get to know a guy before you get in bed with him. If you are in a healthy relationship then all that other stuff just isn't so complicated. You learn to give and take in and out of the bed.
2006-10-15 19:50:08 · answer #6 · answered by Tracy S 4 · 4⤊ 2⤋
It just means that they want a pretty and proper lady, but she gotta love her sex. I reckon a freak in bed is someone who would do anything during sex - experimental, if you know what i mean...
2006-10-15 19:53:18 · answer #7 · answered by adazhia 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
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2017-02-27 19:57:16 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That makes you real intelligent I did not know that Usher was the spokesman for men, did I miss that memo. A freak in the bed will get you AIDS. She will have to learn to be a freak from somewhere.
Taking advice from a singer is like taking advice from the people at a barbershop.
2006-10-17 08:44:44 · answer #9 · answered by King Midas 6 · 3⤊ 4⤋
I thought that makes the relationship stronger. I definitely want that kind of lady myself. My life is boring enough as it is
2016-03-01 23:26:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋