weve been together 3 years he says he want to move up in our relasionship and get married but i dont understand why he hasnt yet? any ideas
2006-10-15 19:13:44 · 12 answers · asked by jescie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
maybe he is saving money for the ring!just wait if he said we wants to do it that means he wants to do it, just give him some time....
2006-10-15 19:20:35 · answer #1 · answered by Ashlee_Hbiba 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to be patient when you're excited and ready to start your life with him, but if you're sure he's for you and you're for him then don't worry. The holidays are coming...he could have a plan, so hang in there. I was with my husband for 3 years and was wondering what was taking him so long before he popped the question, too! He special ordered a ring that was supposed to be ready by New Year's Eve but the jeweler had some issues and didn't have it ready for him until Valentine's Day! I was getting very anxious since we had been living together almost a year and I had pressure from my parents to get on with it. He kept reassuring me that it would happen soon and I wish I would have listened to him and ignored my family's pressure.
2006-10-16 02:40:29 · answer #2 · answered by Kookie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats the hurry your together now what difference is a piece of paper i say wait at least till your together five years if your love is strong enough for a marriage it wont make a difference
2006-10-16 02:20:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should go ahead and ask the question yourself! If you feel the time is right and he wants to then do it! Good Luck!
2006-10-16 02:51:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he's not ready getting things ready to propose, like a ring or he hasn't found one he thinks is god enough for you, or maybe he's waiting for the right time or something
2006-10-16 02:23:49 · answer #5 · answered by ParadoxZero 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you pop the question? There is no rule that says he has to pop the question, go for it!
2006-10-16 02:18:38 · answer #6 · answered by ηєvєrmorє 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is the big rush!! leave him alone to make the decision and he will approach you when he is ready. Do not rush him!
2006-10-16 03:54:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may be waiting around for a long time for whatever reason he is not asking. I would ask him.
2006-10-16 03:16:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a really nice bj and he'll ask you right away.
2006-10-16 03:17:19 · answer #9 · answered by Girlish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if yer canna ask 'im
yer not ready t'get hitched
2006-10-16 02:28:49 · answer #10 · answered by paddy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋