Is there something i can do or take to keep my sexual desire or libido up after i reach a orgasm?

Question

I feel like i have erectile dysfunction because when I'm having sex i reach orgasms very fast, sometimes to the point where its just ridiculous & embarrassing but somehow i have been able to gain a little ground with this problem and at least maintain a pretty decent erection to continue to have sex after i have reached a orgasm. But now I'm noticing that once i do reach a orgasm i dramatically lose the sexual desire,libido, or sex drive that i had when i first started and also if i stop for a awhile lets say to change positions or whatever my erection begins to soften on me. So i was wondering first is this normal especially for a male at my age(20). and second is there something i can take or do to help with this problem something besides Viagra.
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Answer 1

The one guy put it so well, I just wanted to add that natural herbs, and vitamins help so well also. Such as Ginseng root, syrup.., and B5. Hypertension does mess with this also if you have it or may have it.

Answer 2

First of all, no, this is not an uncommon problem. There are many men around your age that face this issue. As far as the loss of desire, that part is something you may need to talk to a doctor about. As far as climaxing too early, you can work on that.

How?

The muscles that suppress or restrain an orgasm are the same as those involved when urinating (the fluids go through a different pathway). Therefore, if you can work those muscles out, then you could enhance your time until you climax.

So how do I do that?

Every time you to to take a piss, consciously stop even after you've started without squeezing yourself. Use the muscles in the area.

It's hard!

For the first few dozen times, it may seem almost impossible which would be directly caused by these muscles being weak. Continuing the practice will strengthen them. Can you stop in the middle of a piss once? Try holding it for a ten count. Then try holding it for a twenty count. Now try stopping twice in the same session. Can you hold it both times for a ten count?

What does that do?

Now try the same technique when you feel you are going to climax. In relation to semen, these muscles are actually easier to control so you should get more time out of it. Through practice and strengthening these muscles, you will find you can go longer periods of time.

What else can i do?

I know it sounds funny, but the American Pie technique really works. Instead of using just one condom, use two at once. It really will desensitize you.

K. W.

Answer 3

you can drink a 8 to 12oz glass of milk 1/2 hour before you have sex, or you just might need to learn to relax ....apparently you have a great partner to get you to orgasm that fast, at 20 years of age you don't need Viagra, you have a very high sex drive, but
changing position should not interfere with the "moment",......

Answer 4

1-3 days? I can keep going after a few seconds. Boosting testosterone is what you're looking for. Also try axe cologne and drinking red bull or rockstar.

Answer 5

you should not be recomended viagra and all in this age without doctor advice, u should go 4 herbal medicine to cure your problem
u can take ashwagandha tabs or caps a day with milk.,
dr ashwani kaushal

Answer 6

try beating off a few hours before sex..it will make you last longer...as you get older after you orgasm your penis is ging to go soft....not like when you were 14.....