really need so help and advice from you guys out there.?

Question

the problem started about a month back.i start to lose respect for my friends and doesn't provide support for them as i did in the past.as a result,i am losing touch with my close friends and doesn't feel close to them.any ideas how would i undo it?

Answer 1

Well i think you sort of got into an emotional phase in life and started to drift off course.Hey, that happens to most of us some point in our lives the important thing is to get back to your old self and blend in back to your group.
Start by joining them in the usual activities and you'll do fine in no time.Cos of the fact that most friends would forgive and forget,thats whats friendship is all about.
Remember don ponder bout what you did in life think of what you're gonna do...

Answer 2

Friendship, like relationship, is like a garden.

You need to constantly water, add fertilizer and pull out the weeds to keep it in tip top condition. You can ignore it once in a while but if you ignore your garden for too long, the weeds would become too strong and you wouldnt be able to pull them even if you want to.

Why did you lose respect for your friends? There must be a reason right?

Now if you lost respect for them for a good reason, you sure you still want these friends?

If you do, i dun think you need advice on how to get close to them again.. THEY ARE YOUR FRIENDS.. just call them up, meet them, chit chat and do things that friends do.

Good luck!

Answer 3

Actually, I believe you know the reason why you have lose respect for your friends. If you can overcome this problem, I believe things will trun better for you. What you need to do now is to see if you could provide the type of support that you used to provide for them in the past and help them to solve problems. Hope this could be some use to you.

Answer 4

your probably maturing faster than they are,,maybe its time to move on and up to freinds with the same way of thinking as you do .