number one turn off for guys?

Question

guys at my school see to ignor me unless they need a pencil. my teammates say it is because they are afraid of me. i think i needed to learn what they like and don't.

i'm 18 and i don't smoke or have tatoos.
my teamates are my volleyball and basketball teammates. i've been on varsity for both sence i was a sophomore.

Answer 1

#1 turn-off - Girls that pretend to be something that they're not. Real Simple.

You don't need every guy to like you.

Just be yourself and the right one will come along.

Answer 2

You may not be giving out any signals that you like them,
or are oblivious of there attentions towards you.
When I was 15 there was this guy at school that used to
walk home with me everyday and he also came and visited
me in hospital but I thought he was just being a mate.
My family and friends tried to tell me he was interested in
me in other ways but do you think I could see it.
Once he even kissed my school mate in front of me just to
see if I would react (I thought he'd lost the plot) and all I can
say is keep your eyes open and you be the one to make the
first move, even if it's just eye contact, just to see how it goes.

Answer 3

teammates?

is that like...your roommates(ref:Grandma's Boy)?

anyway, asking for a pencil is some sort of communication. How old are you?

Just do the things you like, and you'll find someone else who likes them. If you like Christopher Walken, maybe someone else likes Christopher Walken and you can watch the King of New York or something....

If you spend your whole life trying to figure out what boys like so that you can hang out with them you're never going to know who you are. Only who you make yourself out to be.

Next time you feel like asking "what do boys like?" just realize the answer is "me". If one doesn't someone else will.

Answer 4

I would definately have to say a girl with no self confidence. If you aren't happy with yourself, guys can tell by the way you act. If a girl relies on a guy to feel good about herself, its bound to end ugly. Your moods will go up and down, almost like being bipolar. It's not fun for him because he isn't going to like that you can't be yourself & be happy without relying on other people.

Answer 5

I do not know how you look but generally guys mind if they see this in Gals:
- With Armpit Hairs
- Sporting moustache and hairy legs
- BO & bad breath
- Leftover food in between teeth
- Smelly feet
If you have any of this, seek help.

Answer 6

Don't worry too much and be yourself. Do you really want to have to be different around some guy just to get him to like you?

Things will get better as the guys mature.

Answer 7

Always be sure to smile.

Don't wait for people to become your friends, but introduce yourself or join in a conversation.

Help someone who is in need.

Go up to someone and just start a conversation with them. This will let them know that you want to talk to them and they will want to talk to you.

Answer 8

Sadly...guys only want one thing. It is just the way guys are. Guys will put up with quite a bit to get what they want. They will even pretend to care about you if will get them what they want.

The clever ones are better at hiding their true intent.

It is just the way it is.

Answer 9

I'm too old to try to speak for guys your age.
At age 41, my number one turn off would be a woman who acts too friendly and spirited, because I know she is hiding something

Answer 10

Maybe you come on too strong. Question is, would you want to change to attract guys or would you want to wait for one who could appreciate you? (or a bit of both)