I have always belived that sex was something that was just so personal and so intamate that you would only want to share that with someone that you love.
2006-10-15 17:57:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
Well you can still have that belief cause it's true, since america (and only in america it seems like), the meaning of sex now is all a matter of just selfish pleasure, the whole "sex in the city" concept. So suddenly now it's the playas field rather than the marriage field. But sex can be both physical and emotional, it's especially emotinal for me, I seriously can't get off without being in love with my partner. I messed around with a few people, and those one night stands, or those "booty calls" weren't worth jack s*hit cause i wasn't in love with them. I never finished...cause it just wasn't that good. Then i met my fiance, and since i'm in love with her, the sex is off the chain (it's amazing in lamen's terms). Now I actually have the issue of finishin early sometimes, in comparison to the others i messed with when either i didn't finish or i'd go on for freakin hours for nothing.
2006-10-15 18:10:00 · answer #1 · answered by Dennis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, that is the way it is supposed to be. Sex is a beautiful thing to be shared by married couples.
The problem is that sex is so enjoyable that once you have it, you usually want more. Then it becomes something you crave. So many people just have casual relationships that are sexual in nature and don't get caught up in all of the emotional part - they just want the sex.
2006-10-16 01:04:17 · answer #2 · answered by Agent99 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your belief seems to be a cultural heritage... sex is primarily a bodily thing. Now you can choose to do it with who you want --- out of love or not. It's not either a paradox that you'd experience sex drive although you refuse to act or you decide to not acknowledge your appetance. No guilt to have, it's something you have to learn managing. What you do with your sex and how you do it ought to be a matter of deliberation, that's part of what makes you a socialized human being.
2006-10-16 05:07:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex , like many other things in life, was ideally designed on the basis of "give and take" We have seen many people who keep taking and never give . Equally unaccepetable are those who wnat to just give but never take.
Those people to whom sex is physical they fall in this category of takers. They have never seen what pleasure is there in giving. The moment Give and Take takes place such relationship blossoms in to friendship and Love.
2006-10-16 02:00:35 · answer #4 · answered by YD 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people create compartments in their minds, and over a period of time, this becomes a sort of 'mind-block'.....
Very much possible to stay that way, but life for such people happens at just materialistic level.
2006-10-16 08:18:19 · answer #5 · answered by Spiritualseeker 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's so sweet that you think that. But it is a physical act that was designed to bring more of our specie into the world so that we will continue on.
2006-10-16 01:07:32 · answer #6 · answered by Sweetie Poo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are considering a true relation, sex is more emotional than physical.if you are doing it with any unknown persons, or with someone you don't have no long relationship it is definetely physical.but if it is emotional sex it is more enjoyable and relaxable.
2006-10-16 01:05:53 · answer #7 · answered by mayil 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's because some people are selfish! It should be intimate and personal!
2006-10-16 01:01:14 · answer #8 · answered by *~BETHY~* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋