my life is screwed up (im sure im not the only 1 dealing with crap).for some reason i feel kind of lonely,like somthings missing in my life,i just dont kno what it is.im 15,and i got raped about 6 or 7 months ago by a used to be so called best friend of mine.i had twins ,they were prematures and didnt make it.i kinda took it hard on myself.well,this guy didnt give a sh** about me (like most teenage guys).i felt like my parents didnt give a crap about me.well,a few weeks later i hooked up with this guy,we've liked eachother since 6th grade and finally had the guts to go out.he supported me all the way.there really isnt a point of telling u guys this..but anywayz,i have everything i could ever want right now,(besides the fact that my parents are kicking me out)well,the point is i feel like somthings missing.i have everything i need,but im not happy.and to make things worse my bf is moving to texas wich is 2-3 days away from where i live.hes the only thing i have,i dont kno what to do?
2006-10-15 16:47:52 · 9 answers · asked by kimberly z 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If my parents were kicking me out I wouldn't know what to do either! You can make it without your boyfriend. It doesn't feel like it, but you can.Did you get any councling for being raped and loosing your children? If not try going to the the Mental Health Department with this and see if they can help you out and let them know you are being kicked out. What you are missing is LOVE and just so you know, God loves you. Try going to church, it WILL change your life. Pray now to God. He is just waiting for you to give him your problems. Evert thing works out some how! Good Luck
2006-10-15 16:56:10 · answer #1 · answered by azgrmadonna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, you are missing God. Every single person alive is born with a hole in their heart. Some try to fill it with love (sex), drugs, alcohol, partying, work - many things. Bottom line is, at the end of the day when you come down from the high or the bf is gone and the work is all done, the lonliness remains. God is waiting for you to call on Him for the answers to your problems. He is the only true authority for our lives.
I am so very sorry for the things you've dealt with in your young life. I too have lived through molestation but no pregnancy resulted from mine (I was too young). It's natural to feel bad about yourself in those circumstances but it was NOT YOUR FAULT. You are not defined by things that happened to you. You WERE a victim. It's over. Let it go. Forget the past. Look toward the future and make it better. God will lead you there if you just call on His name. Give Him a chance. He has gotten me out of more screwups than I can remember and He alone has given me a fulfilled and blessed life.
2006-10-15 17:09:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you go to the police about the rape? You need to call Child Protective Services if your parents are throwing you out. It sounds like you could use some therapy to straighten yourself out. Stay in school and get an education.
2006-10-15 16:52:16 · answer #3 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"im sure im not the only 1 dealing with crap" your right! there is tons of people who been through what you went through. i'm sorry you had to go through that. sometimes just writing things out and how you feel can help. maybe start an online journal and write in it and vent. or try seeing a therapist, if you can't afford one ask your school counselor if they can help you. if you want to join up a diary site try bloop.com. hang in there hon.
2006-10-15 16:50:27 · answer #4 · answered by LilahFairy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well- if you lost the babies that is a big burden to have at such a young age. You should find a support group for people that have lost their babies. You will never forget about these babies but please don't try to replace them. Keep talking to this guy and tell him that you really need him in your life (even if it's just as friends). Try talking to someone about what is going on. You sound very depressed. Good luck and try to keep a smile on your face.
2006-10-15 16:59:48 · answer #5 · answered by Tammy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it sounds as if you are still grieving over the loss of you babies and dealing with trauma of rape.....get some counseling or talk to a man of the cloth or talk to a womens crisis counselor before you make any decisions in the emotional state you are in. good luck
2006-10-15 18:00:20 · answer #6 · answered by hamhead 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in all probability when you consider which you like him and the 'not understanding' is getting to you. permit him comprehend the type you experience, yet do not assume the comparable in return. If he's a sturdy buddy, he will comprehend. that's going to help you clean issues up on your head and doubtless he will experience the comparable. stable success!!!!
2016-10-16 06:03:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IM SORRY TO HEAR OF YOUR SITUATION IT SOUNDS LIKE YOU NEED SOMEONE TO TALK TO, A FRIEND PREHAPS WHO CAN HEAR YOU OUT. SOMETIMES TALKING ABOUT IT HELPS. YOU SHOULD ALSO CONSIDER SEEKING HELP, YOU SOUND DEPRESS WHICH IN SOME INTENCES CAN LEAD TO A MENTAL DISEAS. SEEK HELP. GOOD LUCK. I WISH YOU WELL
2006-10-15 16:52:25 · answer #8 · answered by jackie_josefina23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry for the issues.Why dont you go with your b/f?
2006-10-15 16:50:47 · answer #9 · answered by Mikillah 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋