i loved a girl. who i think is the best girl in this word,but she was not inerested in having a love afair with me.but she said that will be friend.
we were friend for a week,and we were realy close on that 7 days.that we felt like we are best friends.but now she is afraid that this will turn in to love.coz ur religion is different that would be a problem.
so how can i convince her that we can be best friend with out falling in love.
2006-10-15 16:43:39 · 31 answers · asked by true friend 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Thats upto you . you must always be consious that you are just friends. Everyone thinks love is really great. But ,let me tell you something - FRIENDSHIP is LIFE. It is much more fun than just love.
You can add a few more guys and gurls to your friends group . Maybe that will assure her that you can be just friends.
You might think that this is love , but love can come at any time and it isn't based on looks. try 4explaining it to her & follow the tip I gave.Goodluck!
2006-10-15 23:23:27 · answer #1 · answered by wags 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Friends don't hurt each other or use each other outside the others best interests or if its just wrong. Relationships face enough problems which start out with a lot in common, without starting out with dooming differences. Give your lives all the head starts and good luck and wise preparation you can. Happily ever after is not the reality.
2006-10-15 23:57:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her: "Hey I think you're awesome, and a good friend; I promise you that I will not make any moves on you or anything like that; but I do think we should still chill...what do you think?
or just skip this talking step, and be like, "hey wanna chill at the mall ?"(or whatever you do for fun)...and then inject "I promise I won't hit on you ar anything like that"... just like a friend would...
BUT you never know what can happen...(keep that in the back of your head) AND don't hit on her...looks are ok but no talk...
2006-10-15 23:51:05 · answer #3 · answered by Duuuude no waaaay! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to control your feelings. if one of you or the both of you already have romantic feelings for each other, you two made need time and space apart. Being close to someone can lead to wanting them. It would help if you two would look for another girl/boy friend to hang out with, particularly boy/girl friends that share your religions.
2006-10-15 23:57:07 · answer #4 · answered by Christa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, she SHOULDN'T believe you, or at least she should be suspicious.
guys and girls can agree to be best friends without falling in love when they are past the middle of middle age --and not before! You're both too young to be that canny and unemotional -- I don't believe both of you can trundle along without passion flickering and igniting
By the way, you still love her, you're willing to make impossible deals in order to have her around!
2006-10-15 23:46:56 · answer #5 · answered by urbancoyote 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
learn the difference of friendship an love...very fine line dividing them.friendship is simply being close.distances do not matter...not so in love.learn to believe the friend is there with you everytime u turn back but dont search...friendship will bloom...
2006-10-16 01:02:38 · answer #6 · answered by arthas_ps 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ofcourse u can just be friends, infact i feel she will make a better friend than all ur boy friends. just look for another girl u would like to fall in love and she will remain ur best friend forever
2006-10-16 00:26:12 · answer #7 · answered by queen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer to your question is Self Control.
Unfortunatly it is Human Nature to be attracted to the opposite sex. It is our own up bringing that lets these feelings take control.
2006-10-15 23:45:32 · answer #8 · answered by Seb White 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you both love each other why would you let friendship come in between.... sometimes, it really happens that we fall for somebody whom we call as a bestfriend, if that's the case you should make a stand: either love or friendship... you can't stop something especially if it involves our feelings..
2006-10-15 23:46:35 · answer #9 · answered by mystery 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be casual to each other with ur own work and keep ur self busy ur mind will not be diverted to eachother very often.
2006-10-16 01:35:02 · answer #10 · answered by naina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋