I am I the only person that feels bad that New York was not picked in Flavor of Love?

Question

I am disappointed and I know her heart was in the right place. She just di dnot know how to take control of them .

Answer 1

Yeah. He broke her heart again and this time she was angry. She had to let him know that he hurt her. I think he really broke her heart and that's the reason why she got so upset, if you don't love someone you wouldn't show that much passion and she showed passion. Even though she is over the top no one deserves this and I know (like you said) that her heart was in the right place. As they say fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me. She should have listened to her mama but hey it's better to have loved and lost then to have never loved at all.

Answer 2

Are you serious? Do you really believe that her heart was in the right place? New York is a controlling, manipulative, psycho and the only thing that was in the right place was the glass of wine and cigarettes that were her constant companion. I don't feel sorry for her because she got exactly what she deserved. If he didn't pick her the first time, what made her think that he would pick her this time around? She stood on national television and said that she was going to change the way she was acting for a while so that Flav wouldn't know what he was getting himself into. I don't wish the drama that comes with her family on my worst enemy. Would you want to be in a family with a woman whose mother lied about being terminally ill to try and control her daughter and let's not forget how she called his children bastards. Do you still think her heart was in the right place? I don't. I think she thought that Flav was the same weak type of man as her father and that she would be able to walk all over him the same way her mother walks all over her father and she got fooled. Serves her right. That's what she gets for walking into his house like she was the Queen B or something and causing confusion, maybe if she had changed her ways a little and tried to be more of a lady, instead of such as wh*re she would have won. Congrats to Deelishis! She is definitely the better woman. New York was just a convienent piece of p*ssy for Flav and she wasn't smart enought to see it until the very end.

Answer 3

Delicious won!!! New York acts like she is devastated again, but in reality, she is not even phased by it. She is coming out with a reality show on VH1 that is a female version of Flavor of Love. The name of the show has not been decided yet..but they are thinking of "<3 I Love NY <3". This will feature her mom, and a surprise appearance from PUMPKIN!!!

I dont feel bad for New York, I feel bad for Flav. After the taping of Flavor or Love..Delicious and Flav broke up, and Delicious is now modeling and doing appearances on various talk shows. She was recently on BET announcing that she is single.

Once again, FLAVA FLAAAAAV is heart-broken and used. Poor Baby.

Answer 4

This is assuming that Flava of love is unstaged and real (which I doubt)....

In that sense, I kinda feel bad for her, and Flav's excuse for dropping her was lame. They've been together too long for him to drop her because of what she said in the boat. If he felt so bad after that then why did he sleep with her that night?

She was annoying (sometimes I think she did it because she really liked him) but yeah, I thought she deserved to be with him. She disobeyed her mom to be with flav and was left high and dry.

The reunion show makes it out to be a lot worse. Not only does Flav make New York leave her Mom for him, only to turn her down, he's making fun of them (NY and mama) with the rest of the girls from season one and two.

On the side note though, i feel that New York is a lot of self-esteem issues that really need to be resolved. She isn't an ugly woman, and shouldn't have a hard time finding a man who will cherish and love her for whatever she is. She totally "lost it" by being mean to the other girls being a sex toy for a man who rejected her at one time, and then repeated the cycle by showing up again for the show.

Flav just sees her as a f**k buddy who he can laugh at at his spare time but who is too much (scary) for him to handle when it comes to an open, long relationship.

If you're in the minority, that makes the two of us :)

Answer 5

I feel bad for New York, I really do, I mean she believed until the end, she went against her mother, and everyone else, for the man she claims to love, or the man she wants to be hers so bad, she didnt want anyone else to have him, This is messed up. If her feelings were really that genuine, I think the second time around, this is messed up. I mean, once let's say it was a mistake, but twice, she's either stupid or she's desperate. I cant even imagine how she must be feling now, I mean can she even go out without someone making fun of her? Were I her, I wouldnt ever go out again..

Answer 6

I don't feel bad for New York. The chick is crazy. She has some issues that she has to work out. After looking at her mother's behavior, I see where she gets her jacked up attitude from.

Answer 7

I'm not. I'm glad she didn't win. Look if new york want to win she should change her attildute after from the 1 season and try act little more nicer to other girl.

Answer 8

NY is a excuse me but a over dramatic ***** yo! I hate that show but love the fights lol, like I said excuse me but delicious all the way

Answer 9

The show is a joke anyway. Who would really want to be with that guy for anything besides his money? He looks like a rat.

Answer 10

I agree that she didnt know how to take control of her feelings but im glad that Deelishis won...she was a better person for him