Okay, this is about a girl that lives down the hall from my dorm room. FIrst of all, she's beautiful. I've barely even spoken to her, our schedules are different. The other day, I happened to glance up at her and she was looking straight at me. I could be just imagining, but seemed to want me to look at her, but me being an idiot, I looked down. Today, as I was coming in the dorm and getting on the elevator, she got on too. It was just us in there, so I tried to start conversation. I asked her why she stopped working (She used to work the same place I do). She begins to explain why and she didn't even look at me. When I got to my room, I tried to pause as if I wanted her to as well, but she kept walking. I really want her to like me, but I don't even know if she's into girls. What should I do?
2006-10-15 16:36:01 · 9 answers · asked by pjonkml 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Sorry for such a long post
2006-10-15 16:36:26 · update #1
come out and ask her..I am sorry but I think you may be reading to much into it. If she was interested, she may have shown a little more interest. I am not saying that to be rude:)
2006-10-15 16:41:57 · answer #1 · answered by crimson_ghost03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think she's into you or the gay thing. You can wait and see if she's going to look at you again. I think the elevator would have been the place to let you know. But then she also could be shy.
Does she know you're gay? If so, maybe that was the reason she didn't look at you in the elevator, maybe she felt uncomfortable. Just let it go, if it is supposed to happen, it will.
If not, then go on.
2006-10-16 00:16:14 · answer #2 · answered by Mightymo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll get 2 know her a little better. At least 2 the point where she at least look u in the eyes during conversations. O(
2006-10-16 00:09:23 · answer #3 · answered by Tru 2 Myself 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's not really much to read here. The things that happened could be purely coincidental. Just broach the topic of lesbians and bisexuals with her. Gauge her response and take it from there. G'luck!
2006-10-15 23:44:20 · answer #4 · answered by - iceman - 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, I don't think that she does. You'd best get to know her well first, that'd make things a lot easier in any case.
2006-10-15 23:38:49 · answer #5 · answered by Rat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to be friends with her, then see if she wants more too. If she doesn't, at least you've got another friend out of your attempt.
2006-10-16 09:37:32 · answer #6 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Possibly. You may have to make the first move, but carefully
2006-10-15 23:43:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just get her number, then call her up. when you see her upset just comfort her. This is a good way you can try it..
2006-10-15 23:58:14 · answer #8 · answered by edward g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I THINK SHE IS INTO YOU! JUST GO FOR THE GUSTO AND BE HONEST WITH HER
2006-10-16 01:13:43 · answer #9 · answered by deeeva_glamm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋