I believe that my boyfriend's libido may be low.... grrrr HELP please?

Question

Does anyone know of any possible remedies or maybe even supplements... something maybe all natural...

We have talked about it and we have pretty much both decided that a low libido is the problem.... he does work long hours and he has a very stressful job, which are two causes of a low libido.

Answer 1

If I wanted to be totally thorough, I'd recommend that he see a doctor just to check out whether there was any underlying health problems behind his "low libido." But I think you answered your own question; he has a stressful job and works long hours. That can dampen your libido really fast. Contrary to popular opinion, guys are not up for sex all the time, any time. If you're stressed out and tired, sex can often slip down to near the bottom of the agenda. I suspect that if he had some time off, you might find his libido improved.

Answer 2

Oh luv I feel for you! No much is worst than a BF with a low libido... Very frustrating indeed!

My hubby's database has a couple of portions about natural supplements which are reputated for increasing the male's libido and desire for sexual activity...

Hope this will help you! :

EPIMEDIUM SAGITTATUM
Sometimes called "horny goat weed," this botanical boosts libido and testosterone levels for greater sperm production for a strong ejaculation.

CATUABA BARK
Brazilian herb that strengthens the libido, and nourishes the entire male reproductive system.

PUMPKIN SEED
Supports prostate health and hormonal production. While they may not readily increase sperm volume, they do enhance prostate health and testosterone production.

MACA
Legendary South American botanical proven to promote libido, potency and energy.

Ginseng Y
ohimbe bark

Celery is one of food products known to have great properties for sexual stimulation. It contains androsterone, an odor free hormone which is very inviting for women. Raw celery is the best way to increase that desire.
Oysters are rich in zinc and are know to increase sperm and testosterone production. It contains dopamine which increases the sexual desire.
Bananas, Avocado and Almond or other nuts are some of the other food products which help in this matter.

from http://www.hotlib.com/articles/show.php?t=Increase_Sperm_Count:_10_Ways_you_can_Increase_Your_Sperm_Count
10 Ways you can increase Your sperm count:
1. Have sex & masturbate less often - the more times you ejaculate, the less dense your semen will be. Maintain a gap of 3 days between two consecutive ejaculations.
2. Refrain from habits like smoking, alcohol consumption etc. - Alcohol affects your liver function, which, in turn, causes a dramatic rise in estrogen levels. Even two drinks a day will have long-term effects on sperm production
3. Exercise regularly.Exercising your PC muscle can help you shoot further than ever before.Read How to Exercise your PC muscles at http://www.ayurvediccure.com/penis_enlargement_stretching.htm
4. Eat Nutritious Food - Diet that's low in fat, and high in protein, vegetables, and whole grains is good for your health and for your sperm. Avoid bitter, astringent and spicy foods.Reduce caffeine intake
5. Avoid heating of testicles - Wear loose, cotton boxer shorts, Avoid hot baths and saunas
6. Lose any excess weight, which tends to cause testosterone/oestrogen imbalances.
7. Reduce stress levels by learning relaxation techniques - Keep your mind and body healthy by regular practice of YOGA and MEDITATION.
8. Massage body with herbal oil, which improves blood circulation. Try Penis Massage Oil available at http://www.ayurvediccure.com/penis_enlargement.htm
9. Try supplements - Certain natural supplements promise to increase sperm production.
10. Make love in the early morning or afternoon. Sperm levels are often highest in the mornings.

Answer 3

How's the relationship? Has there been a sudden decrease in his libido? Doubts about the relationship can reduce a man's urges as quickly as stress and long hours. Maybe before you get him to take these unproven herbal 'remedies', you should communicate.

Answer 4

You have identified 2 of the many possible causes, namely stress both mentally and physical.

Herbal 'remedy' such as ginseng, horny goat weet, and etc can be found in health store, GNC has some pretty good stuff, check them out and see what works for both of you.

Going back to his mental stress, both of you need to know how to relax the mental side of things, he need time to exercise to get rid of mental stress, sports such as basketball, tennis, and etc will help. As it offer a physical work out as well as a time for socialising.

Sex in most people are a way to communicate their affection to each other, if they are confused and stress mentally, don't expect them to have much desire for sex for sex only.

Get offline, find some time for both of you to just relax. Go for a movie and simple dinner.

Answer 5

Ohh my my my .. I work in a pharmacy and I deal with this sort of thing ALL day. Okay,

1. We want his hormones to start "kicking" so to speak. He needs to eat cheese, and yogurts. Eat about 3 slices of cheese, a day. (Tell him eat the cheese raw, with nothing else, not with bread etc) He'll notice in about 3 days, he'll feels a bit "hot up".
2. He needs the energy now, he needs Vitamin B-Complex, you can find that right in any over the counter store.
3. He needsone more thing, there are so many sexual performance pills .. I'm rubbing my eyes here .. ummm, okay go in any pharmacy and ask them, well write it on a paper if you embarassed, but you need to find a sexual performance pill with Ginko, in it.

And he's set.

Answer 6

If Im tired, forget it. Really, there seem to be a lot of ladies on here asking the same question, or looking for love.......

Answer 7

Take him away for a private weekend and just relax.

Answer 8

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