Well first to say i cheated on my boyfriend that i have had for 6months. And i dont how to tell! So how can i tell him? And what do you think he will respond to the solution?
2006-10-15 16:17:28 · 10 answers · asked by Ms.731 Tenn-a-key 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well my opinion is that if you love him or he loves you "DON"T tell him". If he doesn't even suspect anything then don't tell him, there's a Spanish saying "Eyes that don't see, heart that doesn't feel". Now if you don't want to be with him anymore just tell him you don't want to be with him anymore, save the poor guy a heartache if you can.
2006-10-15 16:26:18 · answer #1 · answered by JEJEMMY♥♥ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unless he's just crazy in love with you or doesn't think he can do any better he's probably going to dump you and find someone who won't cheat on him.
Unless you can come up with a really good "excuse". I say, if you're in high school & not engaged or living together don't even bring it up. If you're an adult you need to face the consequences.
2006-10-15 23:21:46 · answer #2 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don,t tell him. If you really love him you won,t tell him and then break it off. Because if you tell him it will never be the same if you stay with him. He will never let you hear the end of it. And things may get worse between you. He will always have it in the back of his mind that you cheated on him. Your better off just breaking it off.
2006-10-15 23:32:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, sometimes, some things are best left unsaid. Have you stopped cheating on him yet? If you have, I suggest you change yourself and feel guilty and embarrassed on what you've done. Treat him sweeter and nicer. If he is the type of guy who understands, tell him. If he is the type of guy that goes crazy and angry, DO NOT tell him. Just feel sorry for what you have done and make it up to him.
2006-10-15 23:22:56 · answer #4 · answered by immahappyboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to be in a relation with this guy, if yes, Why screw around on him? Can you and have you been loyal in a relationship? It is your mistake, don't hurt him by telling him, get out gracfully. If you want to stay keep you wrong doing to yourself.
2006-10-15 23:24:01 · answer #5 · answered by azgrmadonna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO NO NO...Don't ever do that. It will make you feel better but it will make him feel terrible. You did it now you deal with it - on your own. It will NOT make him feel better to know the truth. Decide if you want to stay or go...but you keep this information in the vault baby. In time that guilty feeling you have will go away.
2006-10-15 23:24:57 · answer #6 · answered by Ricky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be kind. Just break up with him. Don't tell him you cheated.
2006-10-15 23:21:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm well for one ...you should not have did that to him if you love him ............... 2 i don't think he should take you back if you love some one you don't go with some other man and come back and say oh I'm sorry i will never do it again don't work that way you did it to him once you will do it again
2006-10-15 23:23:38 · answer #8 · answered by bonnie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to go to yahoo answers and look at what you posted...
duh. and then you can read his answer
2006-10-15 23:20:38 · answer #9 · answered by David Y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JSUT TELL HIM YOU DID IT NOT HIM
2006-10-15 23:33:09 · answer #10 · answered by C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋