Okay so the problem is this guy likes me, I always thought he was sweet and was like his aquaintance [kinda barely his friend because I wasnt really interested in him, i never had a boyfriend and i dont plan to until a few years] and I accdentally overheard his bestfrnds talking about how he said that he wants to ... ** ahem.. err.. have sex with me cough cough** I FELT SICK FOR THE REST OF THE SCHOOL DAY!!!
NOW I'M FREAKING OUT!! I'M IN SEVENTH GRADE FOR GODS SAKE THIS KID IS SICK!! I didnt know what to do, I TRIED to get it out of my head, and like ignore it but I couldnt! I had this really bad nightmare about how he almost raped me [not a good sight i swear this is freeking me out] and I cant stop thinking about it! ITS SO SICK!!! Its just so bad for me cuz well peaople say i'm such a good girl. But HOW DO I GET THIS OUT OF MY HEAD!!??!?! WHAT DO I DO?!?!?!?! ITS SICK!!!!!!
Thanks in advance:)
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2006-10-15 15:50:46 · 10 answers · asked by ○◘•DaNdAnA•◘○ 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
talk to your parents, and talk with a school counselor
2006-10-15 15:53:48 · answer #1 · answered by a_blue_grey_mist 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Boys and girls don't tend to make good friends, for as good as both sides try, one side seems to inevitably fall for the other.
But more importantly, you didn't overhear this from the boy himself, but from a friend of his. This may not make it not true, but it isn't the same as hearing it from his own mouth.
Even so, boys say this sort of thing all the time. While its possible that he has a crush on you, more than likely he has a mile long list of people he would like to "do".
What I would do is to keep conversations with him quick. If he is at all perceptive, he'll get the hint. Sooner or later, he'll ask what's up, which would be a chance to explain to him, "You know we're just friends, right? That, no offense, you're just not the type of guy I'm into". Or, maybe better yet, tell him about a guy that you're really into - whether this guy is someone you really ARE into or not, and whether this guy really exists or not.
2006-10-15 16:08:30 · answer #2 · answered by Knathan the Knight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one thing, just want to say it immediately, if the opportunity arises, end the whole thing even if you have to be mean. Seriously. I had something like that happen back in 7th grade too, the girl wouldn't leave me alone for three years. I recommend you do something to get it out of your head, and then focus on keeping it out. Maybe you can have a friend over, when its calm and quiet and tell them what happened and what you want to do. Pick one friend, make it calm and rationale. Discuss it, maybe write it down, get it off. Maybe you can write it down and burn it. It'll be tough, but at all costs ignore the guy. If he's anything like in my case, that'll be damn near impossible. Do it though. Hope this helps you. Oh, and cause it just occured to me that this may be whats bothering you cause you're so young...there isn't anything WRONG with sexuality...so if thats one of the things thats bothering you, its totally fine...really it is. In the context your in....yeah that was a bit...you know, but in itself there is nothing wrong with it. Anyway, good luck.
2006-10-15 15:57:10 · answer #3 · answered by fslcaptain737 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not sick, it's human nature...especially if you're in Seventh Grade....but yes, I see where that's coming from...no offense to others, but I'm glad you're not easy! that's some good morals you have, just make sure you never let anyone change that, dolly! It's a good and respectable quality.
You can talk to him and let him know your intentions, If you don't trust him, NEVER go alone with him, or stop hanging out with him. Just be careful about that.
Man, it's been a while since I have dealt with that, I'm sure someone else can give ya good advice.
2006-10-15 15:56:50 · answer #4 · answered by Yeop 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get so upset about this. You haven't done anything nor do you plan to do anything. You are still a good girl, and seems like you have a pretty good head on your shoulder. You can't be responsible for what other people think, just keep on living your life as you are. Be glad you have the morals that you have.
2006-10-15 15:56:06 · answer #5 · answered by june clever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok first calm down there are a few things you can do. First tell you teacher of an admisitrator because this is called sexual harrasment and he will be in serve trouble!! If you are having feelings like this then turn him in.
Stay the hell away from him and make sure that you are never alone if you are that worried. Be safe!!!
2006-10-15 15:56:22 · answer #6 · answered by Jessica R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell hime your parents think you are too young to date. That way he hopefully will get you out of his head and you won't have be mean about it. As for the dream, that's just you letting your imagination get the better of you, you can't blame him for something he hasn't done. If he continues to bother you after you tell him no, then you have every right to tell the principal or your parents because than he is harrassing you.
2006-10-15 15:54:48 · answer #7 · answered by cosmiccastaway 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get used to it....all us guys think about is sex don't let anyone tell you any differently. The chances are he is just a harmless horny dude, but if you find he is following you or anything that would be considered out of the normal tell a teacher or parent.
2006-10-15 15:54:37 · answer #8 · answered by Kevin Federline 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just ignore him when he tries to talk to you - give him the total cold shoulder, and if he starts really harassing you physically or verbally, tell someone! like a parent or teacher or adult or someone.
2006-10-15 15:53:46 · answer #9 · answered by mighty_power7 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that's a common thing for teenage boys to say about someone they admire.---- unless he mentions it to you , don't worry about it.
He's probably more shy than you are.
2006-10-16 14:34:17 · answer #10 · answered by watcher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋