my whole family is full of pimp and whore's from my uncles to my aunties everybody. im the only one if my family that went to college and have a real job. the problem i having is my girlfriend what's to meet my family. what do u think i should do? i never told her my dad is a pimp."i always told her he is a business man" at first look my dad look like a successful business man until he start talking " that when u can tell he gets he’s money from" he had a big house 3 745 boats ect. should i tell her my dad is a pimp or just let her think my dad is a wild dude with a lot of woman. she always wanted to know what type of business my family was into because i never worked in college and always had nice things. do u think its time to tell her? hlep me out
2006-10-15
15:34:01
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Priesd D
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this is for real not a joke i know it my seem square to be on the internet asking questions like this but i jsut wanted to know what people think. cant talk to pop's about it hes not gonig to change for ANYBODY
2006-10-15
15:41:07 ·
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All i can say is wow you have really shed some light on my own personal life....now i know what my son is going to go through when he grows up.
But to answer your concern....you should let her know and either she will accept it or not. And if your not following that line of work make that clear...and she should be coo with it.
2006-10-17 11:24:07
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answered by Anonymous
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This is a tough one. I find it hard to believe that some of the people on this site actually are telling the truth, or just having fun with people, but lets just say you are telling the truth. I feel you should be honest with everyone in your life. Being dishonest will only come back to haunt you. If this girl really loves you, what your family does should be of no interest to her. You are not responsible for what your family did or still does. Be the best you can be and be accountable for your own actions.
2006-10-15 22:41:51
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answered by june clever 4
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You could be honest and hope for the better (she might like honesty and know that you are not like them; on the other hand, you could get mixed up in something because of your family and she might not want to get involved), or tell your family your problem and tell them to act differently and stuff like that when you bring her over. With both, there could be some trouble, but do what you feel is right.
2006-10-15 22:38:15
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answered by George 3
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Like OMG!!!! That is like so crazzzzzzzyy! are you joking or being serious? Look she's going to find out at one point so it's better if she hears it from your mouth. If she does love you then she won't care much about it. She might get freaked out at first and then mad, but then she'll probably get over it. Anyways do what you feel is important and best for you and your girl, aight? Think about what the out come might be and how this situation might effect your relationship. Look I wish you the best to come and good luck with your family matter.
Ciao and take care~
2006-10-15 22:46:21
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answered by a_cute_girl 3
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Er, she needs to know but in a subtle way? Cant just BLAM, my Daddy be a pimp dontcha know?! doesnt work like that....I suggest leading her onto it very carefully your walking on broken ground here
2006-10-15 22:39:07
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answered by Ashlee K 2
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WOAH that's a load of sh*t you're in. Just tell her you messed up and didn't know what to say since your dad was a pimp.
2006-10-15 22:47:04
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answered by A guy who cant fall outta love 3
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You should tell her. If you phrase the conversation right, you will come out looking amazing. She will think. "Despite all of these setbacks he has overcome them and is going to school and making something of himself" He is motivated-determined and going places!
2006-10-15 22:44:12
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answered by gmartinmktg1 1
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If this a serious question, and you are very close with this girl, maybe you should tell her. Good luck with that.
2006-10-15 22:37:36
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answered by annastasia1955ca 6
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You should be able to trust her with the truth. This will let you know where you stand with her.
2006-10-15 22:44:30
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answered by Justwondering 2
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Your 'girlfriend', huh?
You have another question that says your wife wants to have sex all day and night.
Busted!
Whatever.
2006-10-18 19:06:13
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answered by jkv1111 3
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