2006-10-15 15:24:39 · 22 answers · asked by vikingirl826us 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Time heels all. You need to find something to do to get you out of your depression or maybe out of the house. Something that will keep you busy until you can focus enough to deal with the problem and find the right solution. Best of luck.
2006-10-15 15:28:19 · answer #1 · answered by Justwondering 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is where it helps to have friends to scrape you off the floor and push you back up, I know if my friends hadn't done that I wouldn't have gotten through my broken heart. It will never be the same heart. It wil be an older wiser more beautiful heart with all the experiences of the past as well as all the potential the future has to offer. You cannot let your heart just crumble in a heap and sit there. Of course it will hurt, it will damn well ache, probably for some time, but you must not allow it to remain in that state of disrepair. You owe it to your family and friends, to your heart and to yourself not to let it sit in that state for all time. How do you mend a broken heart, with trust. Trust in yourself. Trust that you will find yourself once again in a situation, relationship, or experience that you will enjoy at least as much as the one that broke your heart this time. So go on and let it hurt for a while but think of all the excitement and the butterflies you felt once, and know that someday you and your heart will be in that same place again. And when you walk with this confidence you will be on that new path on your journey that God has laid out for you.
2006-10-15 15:47:13 · answer #2 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been there twice. My first husband was abusive and although I loved him, I had to walk away and save myself and my child from that painful life. We were married for six yrs. I remarrried and after eight yrs. he decided he wanted to live the single life again. When he walked out I went through a deep depression, but in time I realized I didn't stop breathing when he walked out and eventually I met the man of my dreams. We've been married over six yrs. now and looking back when my ex walked out he actually did me a favor. You will survive. Even in your darkest hour you can get past this although it may not seem like it. And you could actually find a better life with someone else. It will just take time. Good Luck.
2006-10-15 15:39:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take everything that reminds you of him and create an actual grave. You can mourn there and remember, but it is now lost.
Once you leave the grave...you feel emotionally better. Always remember there's a reason why it all ended, something better is waiting for you out there and you will know when it comes and it will. You will be happy again sooner than you think!
I was there too not to long ago......i found love genuine this time
Goodluck to you!
2006-10-15 16:15:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... when it happened to me the first time (yeah.. after that.. a couple more times) ... the world's like ending (cannot sleep, cannot eat, even my favorite chocolate can't arouse me) ... trust me. What i did then was to focus on what I was doing, to study real hard. Hmm.. I did well on my grades...
In times of depression, try and focus on something to do, work or study or even take up a course. Too much thinking isn't gonna do you good. Life has to go on, seriously, the next bus will still come, the next election will still come and hopefully my next paycheck.
Do not jump into another relationship too soon....
This is the time of fragile, do not like it overcome you.
2006-10-15 15:35:55 · answer #5 · answered by alfahomme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot mend it. Only time can heal the broken heart
2006-10-15 15:50:16 · answer #6 · answered by sexonsight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to give yourself some time. Now is the time to lean on your friends and family. Lose yourself in activities that'll keep you busy so you aren't feeling loney or bored. Stay away from sappy music and secluding yourself from others. That's just making things worse for yourself. Put on a happy face. It's hard at first, but it'll get easier to get out there and have some fun.
2006-10-15 15:28:36 · answer #7 · answered by fiestyredhead 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
.::sigh::. it's not easy. whatever you do or see reminds you on that some1 try making a CD with all your sad love songs~ and just reminense til your tired of reminensing..and go to bed~ take a hot bath~ anything that will relax your mind : )
2006-10-15 15:41:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spend time on yourself. Have a weekly long bath and if your old enough a glass of wine if not subsitute chocolate. Go out with your girl friends and spend time together. Work on a goal, somethign that you want. Whether it be lose five pounds, learn how to belly dance or karate.Take time out and work on yourself. This will help. Good luck.
2006-10-15 15:31:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make yourself as busy as you can to take your mind off of that person. Start doing things for yourself and start looking the best you can. Do not call him and bug him that will only make matters worse. Just act as if you are ok and are living your life. Move on and have fun.
2006-10-15 17:13:21 · answer #10 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋