2006-10-15 15:22:51 · 13 answers · asked by M - pet 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
As a girl who's been torn between choosing before, I will tell you that although a decision may be hard to make--it can and should be made. No one deserves to be strung along and have to share love instead of having one's own. If she says she can't leave him, it's probably that she wont leave him because she really loves him or is in love with him. Some girls tell guys they love them, but they just mean "I care for you a lot and want you to continue to be my friend." You should move on with your life, im sorry, but with all the time you spend pining over someone else's girlfriend, you could be missing out on meeting a special girl who could actually become the best girlfriend you've ever known and who will light up your life so much.
2006-10-15 15:44:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait for her or move on. And, did she just say she loves you or that she's in love with you. You can love a friend. I tell my best friend I love her all the time. That doesn't mean I'm going to cheat with her on my girlfriend that I'm in love with.
2006-10-15 15:26:20 · answer #2 · answered by iuneedscoachknight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww you poor guy....
well if she has a boyfriend and she wont leave him that sorta tells you she loves him more than you... dont get me rong she can still love you but she might love him more.
i think you should go and find someone new that is single
but i you realy thinks she loves you more then wait for her but dont be surprised if she doesnt come to you
good luck
♥
2006-10-15 15:29:18 · answer #3 · answered by Claire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How many bofriends do you want her to have before she's good enough for you? Sounds like you have a few self esteem issues. IT's her loss cuz
2006-10-15 15:25:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U falling in love with someone that don't belong to u. If she don' t want leave his boyfriend and also want with u . I think she play triangle love with u.Or i think she want more love with those around her.
2006-10-15 15:55:59 · answer #5 · answered by user 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be realistic, you know what you have right now and what you maybe or never gonna have in the future. And you can ended like the gay before you, anyway.
2006-10-15 15:32:22 · answer #6 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you have to give her the ultimatum... She can only have one or the other - if you stay with her it'll only hurt you more in the long wrong - i am sure you already know this.
2006-10-15 15:25:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her, she can not have both. She got to make a choice, coz three is a crowd.
2006-10-15 15:25:49 · answer #8 · answered by dtmc542006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get ripped and scare her boyfriend off.
2006-10-15 15:25:26 · answer #9 · answered by N/a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she can leave him if she really loves you! if she loves you enough she will leave him and not stay with him she will choose you
2006-10-15 15:24:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋