I really like this guy but I don't know if he likes me as much and I'm having these thoughts of us having sex but i wanna kno should i wait til I kno I found the right one or should i just go ahead?
2006-10-15 15:19:41 · 24 answers · asked by Enicia H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Wait, wait, wait. No need to rush, You can't have any regrets if you wait until you are 100% sure. Did I mention to wait?
2006-10-15 15:22:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to have sex with some guy you don't love and barely know? You don't even know if he likes you very much or wants you like that. I know that you've got these raging hormones, you are lustful, and maybe you feel lonely. But first, slow it down. Try to find out how he feels about you (you should probably tell him you like him a lot), then before hopping into the sack for some casual sex (no love/commitment involved)--try to take your time and get to know him and let him get to know you. Once he gets to know you and comes to really care about you, when you two finally do have sex, it will actually mean something to him instead of you being just another sex buddy when he wants some fun or sexual release.
2006-10-15 15:31:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are the consequences of waiting vs going ahead? If you go ahead and you get pregnant or get a disease, will you be comfortable that you knew the risks going in? Get every question answered first, and then ask yourself if, five years from now, things fall apart, will I look back and say that I made the best decision for me at the time?
2006-10-15 15:27:25 · answer #3 · answered by Delaware Dan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't know if he likes you, but you have thoughts of having sex with him... that's a crush, or also called a fantasy. There is nothing to go ahead with yet. It's all in your mind at this point. Just chill. Wait and see if he likes you, and then give yourselves time to get to know one another before you open your legs. Unless you like the idea of sleeping with 100 guys who are not at all interested in marrying you ever.
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2006-10-15 15:23:07 · answer #4 · answered by mia2kl2002 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mainly you can divide guys into 2 groups: those who just want to get in any girl's pants. And those who want a serious relationship with intention to marry.
You probably know girls like that too.
So I'd say if you are interested in him mainly because of his good looks or sweet talk, he is most likely in the first group.
And you will not keep him if you let him have sex with you. The attraction he had for you will be gone. He'll look for other conquests.
2006-10-15 15:26:56 · answer #5 · answered by the shadow knows 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some men like it when women ask first and then there are some that are old school. they would rather be the ones to ask. so you can try and talk to him, if he feels weird about you asking him then lay off and wait for his move. good luck
2006-10-15 15:23:50 · answer #6 · answered by Boo G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait, guys really love and respect virgins. If a guy leaves you because you won't he doesn't truly love you. If he did he'd marry you and then have sex.
2006-10-15 15:22:37 · answer #7 · answered by rick m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should probably tell him you like him a lot)
2015-07-14 15:05:57 · answer #8 · answered by Ana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only you can tell yourself to wait or not. if you dont love him then dont do it.if you feel he is the right one then go for it but if u dont think he is you should prolly wait then.only you can decide though. i hope you make a good decision
good luck = )
2006-10-15 15:25:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ujust go ahead,tha t will make u a tramp.so stay true to urself and get 2 know him 1st/
2006-10-15 15:21:36 · answer #10 · answered by chocolate tea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋