2006-10-15 14:38:35 · 6 answers · asked by Saxaphoned 1 in Social Science ➔ Sociology
for me starting a conversation with a lot of the people in my life was interesting. with my bf or ex, i started the conversation about a quiz that i missed and he took and i needed to look over the quiz that i missed. you should start a conversation easily: it should seem effortless yet intriguing. if you see a girl you like at a coffe shop and she is reading a book start from there. ask her if the book is any good or tell her a little bit about the book if you have read it or read any good reviews about it. that will keep people interested in you. also, do not try to be some one that you aren'y because that is a shame in my opinion. small talk that is good as well as introducing yourself and asking lots of questions and taking the time to listen will make you feel more comfortable. good luck!
2006-10-15 16:03:32 · answer #1 · answered by icycrissy27blue 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It must just be a personal thing, b/c I can go up and start a conversation with even a tree stump and before u know it...we have similar roots
2006-10-15 14:45:02 · answer #2 · answered by stacypeacock1967 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to them, ask them about their interests, their hobbbies, and what things they like, what makes them smile. Just be yourself. If you feel weird because you are asking questions, thats going to make you look like you arent confident in yourself, and that effect will make the other person feel uncomfortable. Just talk about things around you to start off. Just take your time and dont ask a zillion questions at once.
2006-10-15 14:52:51 · answer #3 · answered by Miss Mai Tai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"So what kind of music do you listen to?" Most conversations are based on our search to see what common interests we share.
2006-10-15 16:05:33 · answer #4 · answered by ^_^ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on your surroundings .. use them it makes it easier example: school, work, friends > they can all be used as a stepping stone for great convos, you just haveta keep it natural and let it flow
2006-10-15 14:48:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look at the person and say "hello, how are you?"
the big thing is to look at them when you talk, don't look down.
2006-10-15 14:46:23 · answer #6 · answered by ic3d2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋