his being "committed" means that he has a gf and has a baby with her..
2006-10-15 14:34:47 · 19 answers · asked by sugarplumpricess 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
NO
2006-10-15 14:36:01 · answer #1 · answered by Snickle Beast 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, if you think that being a guys little "piece-on-the-side" is all that you deserve.
Anyone that I know who has any self respect will know that they deserve to be number one, not sloppy 2nds.
So who coined the term "special relationship" for what you have with him? Do you feel special when he leaves to go home to his main girlfriend & kid?
It's not my intention to make you feel bad about yourself. I'm trying to wake you up, so that you can see that you need to place a higher value on yourself & your dignity than what you are doing right now.
This guy has you & maybe a couple of others that neither you or his GF knows about, because this guy is "committed" to no-one.
Try to take better care of yourself.
2006-10-15 14:45:35 · answer #2 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ohhhhhh helllll NOOOO!!! You can't be doing this. Even though he is being more than willing to be with you that does NOT make it okay to participate in such things. You are ruining a relationship that although is on edge could possibly be saved if you were not involved. Imagine yourself in her position ...she has a child with this man and probally loves him to death and then her you are not having to work for anything and just taking it. And besides that where is this going to go???? Even if he does leave this woman he will most likley do the same sh*t to you!!!
2006-10-15 14:39:13 · answer #3 · answered by Confused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a good idea for him not a good idea for you not a good idea for the child, and if anyone finds out the child will findout in the end and only resentment will result from this.
These are the pros and cons I looked at and I can't find andy pros in this. Just a lot of bad news in the end.
2006-10-15 14:38:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could make me sense like that factor I drank too lots Robitussin DM on "twist of destiny" and then proceeded to "by twist of destiny" beat the crap out of a few previous woman that become writing a verify interior the 20-products-or-much less lane at purpose.
2016-10-19 11:22:53 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never get into a final decision unless you have already wiegth positive and the negative outcomes..... take into consideration not just your feelings to that guy... think what your family will react,what your friends might say. for ones take time to think not only for your own good but please consider also the people around you, it should be a decision that will not be only benefited to you but to the good of majority.....
2006-10-15 14:46:15 · answer #6 · answered by cool_lanz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pleas no ! He needs to take care of his child . He shouldn't have done it in the first place . Be the bigger person and tell him to take care of his family
2006-10-15 14:37:35 · answer #7 · answered by silverearth1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If by "special" you mean friend with benefits, I would think that's over with.
2006-10-15 14:36:33 · answer #8 · answered by Obsean 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get away from this loser and find someone that will treat you with some dignity and respect.
2006-10-15 14:37:09 · answer #9 · answered by hydroco 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. It really sounds like he has very little to offer you.
2006-10-15 14:36:17 · answer #10 · answered by Electron Blue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please no :[ That would be heart breaking for his girlfriend if she ever found out. Not to mention, that's totally wrong!
2006-10-15 14:37:19 · answer #11 · answered by Hessy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋