Or a man being in love with another man? Why do they think we are sick in the head or something? What gives anyone the right to say who anybody should love?
2006-10-15 14:08:55 · 13 answers · asked by You Don't Know My Name 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Because people just can't leave other people alone and stay out of their business. Instead of worrying about themselves, they think they need to tell everybody else that they should live THEIR way.
Does it really make a difference in my life if my neighbor wants to have sex with their own gender? Absolutely not. Live and let live, I say. I feel that with all the hatred and ugliness in this world, when two people get together who love each other, we should celebrate that.
2006-10-15 14:47:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I'm straight and I think it's because of the gender roles. The feminine is attracted to the opposite the masculine, that's how it works for us, so it's difficult to understand the feminine wanting the feminine if it's d*ck that gives you satisfaction. There's also that whole religious thing. The bible says it's an abomination and that's that. Nobody stops to think or question it. But personally I can understand it, because I'm a girl watcher and have had sexual stirrings for a girl. I don't know that I would actually go there, I don't consider myself bi. But I'm totally gay for Gwenyth Paltrow. I don't think there's anything the matter with gay people. I never have.
2006-10-15 14:17:35 · answer #2 · answered by inquiringmind 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To the person who started this thread, um.... if your girlfriend explained to you VERY clearly that she's not attracted, turned on, or interested in women, then what the hell does that tell you? It should be obvious then! BUT, at the same time if she's enjoying the sex with other women, then that could be a bit..... confusing. So she might be confused or she might not be. However it would be more likely that she's bisexual rather than calling her a "closeted" gay woman, because she's with you and has been with other men. So she's not bi. And believe it or not, but there are TONS of men who fit the category of "bi-curious" like how Super Star explained.
2016-05-22 05:10:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People are raised by other misguided people who listen to a 2000 year old book that claims that our savior is a carpenter and accept all of its claims blindly. Just like there are still some racists today, over time there will be less and less homophobes, however, as long as certain religions are around people will keep buying into the ancient hate that can only be practiced by a true ignorant person.
2006-10-15 14:13:30 · answer #4 · answered by defenderof thehumanright 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Nobody has any right to tell anyone who to love. What I can't understand is that what is wrong with two people loving each other? In the world today we need more of it.
I don't know about you but I find it mostly the Christians that diss gays. At least we don't blow up each other and innocent people because of who we are and what we believe in.
I think that because hetro is seen as the norm it is hard for people to think outside the square.
2006-10-15 15:37:51 · answer #5 · answered by gretphemelger 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
This isn't hard for straight people to understand, it's hard for bigots to understand. Just like some racists can't imagine someone loving a person of another color, or from another culture. The bigots around here don't speak for the majority. They are a small, hateful minority that's getting louder and more strident because they know they're a shrinking minority, and it drives them nuts.
2006-10-15 15:54:22 · answer #6 · answered by Fraggle 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i dotn belive anyone has the right to say who you should love. however i dont belive god intended for people to be gay. but it isnt peoples place to judge- its gods, and in the end he will.
2006-10-15 14:22:44 · answer #7 · answered by Ellen 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Straight people just don't understand a damn thing.If it is different in their world oh lord help them-I love my g/f and i don't give a damn who cares or knows,or don't like it!!!!!
2006-10-15 14:55:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
i ask myself that everyday. and im sure many gay/lesbian/bi sexuals ask themseleves that every day also. its just one of those questions that sadly will never have an answer
2006-10-15 15:01:13 · answer #9 · answered by justine 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Most do it's just bigots that claim they don't.
2006-10-15 15:21:20 · answer #10 · answered by tammidee10 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋