I heard that clinggy is someone that is to close to another person..
I became super extra close to my Best friend and I know that we cant spend that much time together, i feel like calling her always but I dont know if I became "too annoying" Is it bad??? I think Im just too attached to her.
2006-10-15 13:54:29 · 7 answers · asked by X22 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sometimes we feel so lonely that when we find someone who pays attention to us, we tend to cling to that person. This might be very uncomfortable for that person. That person might have a very active social life. A life in which you don't belong. This doesn't mean you are no good. It just means that since we all don't have the same interests, we might feel uncomfortable in an environment not suitable to our tastes.
I don't know if I'm being clear about this, so I will give you an example: Suppose you like to go to museums, but hate going to the beach. Your friend might hate museums, but loves going to the beach. This about this: Why would you want to go to the beach and be miserable? Why would your friend want to go to the museum and be miserable? If you insist on clinging to your best friend, she might get annoyed with you. Would you like to be with someone 24 hours a day? Come on, the honeymoon does not last forever.
It is best to try to have a larger circle of friends. They don't have to be your best friends. As a matter of fact, perhaps you can have a circle of acquaintances who have the same likes as you do. It is impossible to find one person who shares all your interests.
I hope this helps.
2006-10-15 14:12:54 · answer #1 · answered by Hopeful 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Clingy is not a good personality trait to have. It also can be called co-dependant.
An example would be you calling your friend every 5 minutes, wanting to spend ALL of your time together. Going everywhere with her, generally- stalking in a non violent way with no intentions of harm.
2006-10-15 20:58:14 · answer #2 · answered by rottymom02 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
clingy is when you don't give the other person any time by themselves or with anyone other than you. You want to spend all your time with them and probably/maybe get mad at them if they want to do something with anyone else other than you or even if they just want to be alone. If your doing this then stop or you'll lose your friend sooner or later. They are allowed to have more than one friend and so are you. Find some more friends your relationship with your best friend will get even better.
2006-10-15 21:18:17 · answer #3 · answered by ladykat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Clingy is someone who forces themselves on another person....someone who wants to spend every waking minute with another person.....someone who doesn't give the other person any space whatsoever......I can't say if you became "too annoying" or not....that's a question you'd have to ask her.....Good luck!!
2006-10-15 20:57:43 · answer #4 · answered by honey_bear_21_1999 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it is nice that you want to spend lots of time with your friend but try to give her a call every second day and sometimes don't call and see if she calls you. That way you will see if she likes spending time with you to, if she don't call i wouldn't call. Maybe that will be the hint she needs space.
2006-10-15 21:04:14 · answer #5 · answered by lem604 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You heard right. Everybody needs breathing room
2006-10-15 20:57:09 · answer #6 · answered by ridingthestorm_out 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
CLINGY MEANS U R INVADING SOMEONE PERSONAL SPACE. U R OBVIOUSLY EMOTIONALY NEEDY AND QUICK 2 TURN PEOPLE OFF.
2006-10-16 04:13:33 · answer #7 · answered by SOLOINIT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋