i HAD a friend(i hate her so much that i don't consider her as my friend anymore!) and one of my "kabarkada" whom i had a fight with. she said bad things about me which i am really not. this morning, i saw her on the pathwalk, and of course she just walked passed me. how come she's the one who have the guts to be angry! i was the one who got hurt! honestly, i want to get rid of her! i really hate her! i won't forget what she did to me.!
question is, how can i get rid of her...her presence really piss me off.. especially that we have the same friends and we see each other everyday.
just seeing her face makes my blood boil! specially those eyes that goes in circles everytime she sees me... ggggrrrrrr!
tnx
2006-10-15 13:41:33 · 10 answers · asked by Samantha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Honestly, you can't get rid of her. If ya'll go to the same school and have the same friends your going to run into her. At my old school I had the same probelm with a couple of girls. We learned to live with each other. Yah it was weird, but is was all we could do considering the circumstance. And that's what you gonna have to do to, just learn to live with it. I'm sorry but that is truthfully the only thing you can do without risking your friendship[ with your other friends.
2006-10-15 13:45:58 · answer #1 · answered by hippie_at_heart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I don't know what a "kabarkada" is, but it sounds as if you and your ex-friend were close. Some people say bad things when they're angry and irrational. You're not only angry at her, but you're also hurt, stunned that she would say certain things to you. After all you trusted her.
She isn't worth your anger and hatred. I'm not saying that she doesn't deserve your negative feelings, but in the long run, you're the one who gets hurt more because you think about her, have to see her, etc. It's even harder because you have the same friends. Are your other friends' taking sides? They're probably trying to be neutral.
Take it from one who's been there time and time again. You're only hurting yourself by keeping your angry feelings. Forgive her even if she doesn't deserve it. No, you won't forget what happened. No, forgiveness doesn't mean you want her in your life anymore. After all, how can you trust someone who has betrayed you?
If at all possible avoid her. Only you know if you can. Now when she passes you, is there a way you can look straight through her as if she doesn't exist? That usually bugs people a lot.
Some people who profess to be your friends and then stab you in the back make me sick too.
2006-10-15 20:52:20 · answer #2 · answered by Juanitamarie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow hate is such a big word I don't know how old are you but
in a case like this that you both have the same friends is going to be hard and I think you need to be the mature one and talk to her and tell her exactly what bother you of her and tell her that he hurt you as well. If that does not work just go your way don't let her bother you or she had won already just ignore her like she don't exited at all don't let your friends talk to you about her just make her despaired out of your life that's all
2006-10-15 20:50:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it takes two to tango. So why dont ypu ask her wats her problem, badmouthing you. And tell her in the face that she has no right to say such thing. and you could do this in fornt of your same batch of friends to show that you're right and she's just plain evil. That way, your friends will support your beliefs and hopefully will stop hanging out with her. But if your friends supports her, I'm sorry then. You have to get new friends. You dont need people like them. Stay strong with your beliefs.
2006-10-15 20:47:16 · answer #4 · answered by IcyBlue2412 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id say get over it, **** happens deal with it, i have freinds like that n it suxs to hang out with them. just talk with her n get some reason why this stuff went down n figure a way out to deal with it.. this will make it easier for u n ure freinds, before they have to choose sides n make it uncomfortable for them. n if that doesnt work then kill her n beary her in some hole somewhere
2006-10-15 20:46:46 · answer #5 · answered by snooppoopaloop69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you should do is try to ignore her and don't listen to her because if you do she will keep doing the same thing.also you could do the same thing she does to you to her she'll get mad faster.trust me i had a problem like that!
2006-10-15 21:08:30 · answer #6 · answered by blackrose* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kill her with kidness,, don;t let her get to you,, show you are the bigger person,, some times friendship breaks apart and it is tough when you both have the same group of friends,, but hey smile that will kill her ,,
2006-10-15 20:45:39 · answer #7 · answered by thanks to our brave troops, 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HATE is a very strong word. You don't hate her and be careful that your emotions don't make you do anything stupid.
2006-10-15 20:52:31 · answer #8 · answered by dipzet21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
START HANGING OUT WITH DIFFERENT PEOPLE OR GET YOUR FRIENDS TO STOP TALKING TO HER
2006-10-15 20:46:38 · answer #9 · answered by Deadman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore !!!
2006-10-15 20:45:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋