yes i know it was wrong but there were problems, i lost my fiance in iraq and at the time i lost it. and i'm scared to ask a doctor because i don't know what to do and i'm sorry for my baby and thats why i'm on here
2006-10-15 13:39:25 · 32 answers · asked by kittyonhotcoals 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Dear Kitty,
I am so sorry for your loss. I know this is a overwhelming time for you. Kitty, please get some help. There are a lot of people in the world who care about you and need you. Do not be afraid of getting professional help and treatment. Many people consider suicide when they are hopeless and unable to see alternative solutions to problems. But Kitty, as bad is your situation seems it is not hopeless. Contact your local crisis hot-line, the number is in the phone book. Someone is there to help you through this. There are effective treatments for depression, take to your doctor or have a friend go with you to see the doc. You need all the support you can get. I'll pray for you too. If your thoughts get to overwhelming, don't hesitant to call 911.
Peace be with you.
2006-10-15 13:55:06 · answer #1 · answered by Peace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not a funny thing to joke about! How much attention are you trying to get. Even if your story is true, you need mental help. If your man died, you would think you would want a reminder of him (your baby). Get off the computer, and go talk to a friend or family member if you really are this distraught. You are selfish. You have no idea how easy you have it. Others have been through even worse, and still managed to birth their children (think 9/11?). Shame on you if this is real, and if your baby is dead, that might be a good thing seeing as it has a murderer for a mother. Good luck with that!
2006-10-15 16:04:50 · answer #2 · answered by Caelan's mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh, you have a baby!! that is so great. A baby to love and raise. A baby to keep you company when you are feeling down. You are truly blessed. Do you know that? You are young and have your whole life ahead of you. Within time,you will be feeling better. Yes, go to a doctor and tell them everything that is going on. Get it all out and let them know. The doctor will help you, most definitely. Tell as many people as you can how you feel. Like I said, time will heal you. Take care of yourself and then take care of your baby. IT WILL GET BETTER!! Trust me. Just take it one day at a time, or even one hour at a time. Try to get outside and get some fresh air every day, and sun shine, too. bless you.
2006-10-15 13:45:04 · answer #3 · answered by gloria123445566 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please dont do it ,l feel this way every week for a long time now but l know something good is at the end on our own .Yes the world is mean and things are all wrong but l believe you will be very happy at the end of this tory of your life.Youe here to save someone special and to help others out of hard times,so please dont leave l might need your help some day ronfredmarion@yahoo.ca.you are a good person and lots of people want you around to talk to like me so god bless and take care .
2006-10-15 13:45:50 · answer #4 · answered by pirateron 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok honey, stop and think. Would your fiance want you to take your life.Would he be upset at you for harming the babies life? Also isn't your baby a part of your fiance and wouldn't you love the child because of him? I am terribly sorry for your loss. I grieve with you and pray that my daughters boyfriend doesn't have to be deployed. You know there are people who are in your same boat. Please go to the doctor and talk, go to a priest and or minister, someone in your family perhaps. Things will work out for you. Love your baby, it is a part of your love for your fiance. Make sure the baby is well taken care of and loved.
2006-10-15 13:45:01 · answer #5 · answered by goodbye 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your Baby needs you more than ever!
Life is a gift from God, why should we refuse it?
Do you think your fiance expected you to leave him all alone because his not around?
It a good moment to be with people: a good friend or relative, don't stay alone, keep busy, put your mind on something: a certain activity, your job or Hobie.
Your situation may be temporarily.
God bless you!
2006-10-15 13:46:59 · answer #6 · answered by etherberg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see what the iraq war does, kill innocents on both sides, ( more on the iraq side btw). im srry for ur fiance.
we ignorant amerikans dont think that this happens to the women in iraq also. think of all the iraqis that lost their lives becoz unwanted amerikans intruded their freedom.
well anyways, talk to friends an family, they help you feel good.
do not take away ur precious life.
u can go to rehab. R.I.P, to those who lost their iNNoCeNT lives in iraq. there is a heaven for a G.
2006-10-15 13:47:55 · answer #7 · answered by oceanlab 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
check the answers to your other question. Im sorry about your loss, but that is no need to kill yourself and your baby. Life goes on. Imagine if everyone tried to kill themselves when a loved one died. Just get some counseling and go to the doctor for depression, etc..
2006-10-15 13:43:01 · answer #8 · answered by Blondi 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know it must be hard for you i can feel the pain you feel but all is not lost. it is still some thing that you need to do to be of help to someone else. try to think constructively, please do not take your life your baby need you and you are worth far morer then cheating yourself out of life i suggest you get in contact with a well seasoned minister and get into god's word it will give you comfort in time of trouble god bless and keep you!
2006-10-15 13:45:27 · answer #9 · answered by mishoney 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if this is true, you need to seek some counceling...not putting you down at all....but if this is true like I said, you have to get your head on straight, you have a child coming, and that child deserves a stable upbringing....and sometimes, people can't do it alone, dealing with grief, and under the circumstances, it's understandable...if you go to a doctor or councelor and tell them you attempted suicide, they may/could deam you unfit, and possibly commit you, or petition to take away your child...you go and tell them you are depressed, and why, and get some grief counceling, you have to pull yourself together.....for your sake and your childs....very sorry to hear about your fiance, one of our soldiers, have 2 kids in the military myself, and can understand why you lost it....I would too...but to take your life isn't going to bring him back, and he wouldn't want you to do that...You have part of him, focus on that, that those bastards over there aren't going to stop another American soldiers memory to be erased...best revenge to the bastards that killed him, give birth to a new American citizen, sincerely good luck to you...
2006-10-15 13:50:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋