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me and my gf are 16 , we already had s e x , and i love her and she does too but i want to marry her i already saw an apartment it really rocks and i want to buy it ,we have been with each other for 2 months and 3 weeks now . i will do anything for her. how can i ask her to marry her

2006-10-15 13:18:46 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting Adolescent

30 answers

You can't get married if you're under 18 unless you're legally imancipated from your parents. So, what you can do now is get engaged and get married when you are both 18. Sure you'll be really young, but I know a lot of couples who got married right after high school. Some of them went on to college together (a lot of colleges and universities have housing for married couples) and others started working right away. Anyway, they're all doing great. Good luck!

2006-10-15 14:16:04 · answer #1 · answered by Miss Jay 3 · 1 0

There are a couple of other questions you need to ask before you ask her to marry you. How are you going to pay the bills? How sure are you that this will last until Christmas, never mind forever. At 16, crushes are very common. They're part of growing up. It's too bad you've already had sex, because that just makes things more difficult, and raises the possibility of an unwanted pregnancy which would certainly complicate your relationship. However, if you've already started having sex, that brings up another question. Could you afford to support her and a baby? At 16, it's highly unlikely you could, as you may have a few dollars in your jeans, but you certainly don't have a solid career underway.
This isn't the response you want to hear, but it's one you should give a lot of thought to.
By the way, have you mentioned this to your parents? Or to hers? Because at 16, you need to get parental consent to marry.

2006-10-15 13:24:31 · answer #2 · answered by old lady 7 · 2 0

first of all legally you cannot get an apartment you're a minor. secondly you need to get out of school and get a good stable job before you start thinking about getting married and an apartment. just wait if you love her this much now then the 2 of you will still be together years down the road to get married then

2006-10-15 13:24:27 · answer #3 · answered by gardener24 3 · 0 0

just ask but don't b stupid after all u r only 16 and things do change. if the 2 of u r really in love it will last until u finish high school. unless u r independantly wealthy, i don't see how u can buy an apartment and support a wife. so just KEEP ur pants and don't get her pregnant and wait until u r old enough to get married properly. good luck and please listen to our collectively wise advice.

2006-10-15 13:26:09 · answer #4 · answered by Nora G 7 · 0 0

Hold your horses man. You've only been with her for 2 months thats a little too soon don't you think. Not to mention your 16. I say if you two are still together by the time you graduate then you can think about moving in together and possibly getting mararied.

2006-10-15 13:55:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

She probable is going through not uncomplicated cases in her marriage and seems back on the "strong ol' days" of no responsibilty and strong cases with you! Be flattered that she is clearly nonetheless wondering about you yet do no longer pursue some thing including her. in case you favor to seek for suggestion from from her, possibly connect up for lunch and make certain she knows you aren't to any extent further fascinated in a courting except friendship. If she seems to go back to a call on better or appears hiding your friendship from her husband, somethings up. tell her you're basically no longer that form of guy and leave her on my own. She'll continuously see you because the only which were given away ;) strong success!

2016-10-16 05:06:10 · answer #6 · answered by hoch 4 · 0 0

You are too young for this huge leap. Do either of you have a job? or are you independantly wealthy so you will never have to worry about food, electricity, graduating from high school, etc. You haven't even been together that long. Sounds like you have a nice relationship, but you must be realistic.

2006-10-15 13:22:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 4 0

1st you cannot get married or get a apartment at 16! second you really dont know what love is at that age

2006-10-15 13:22:22 · answer #8 · answered by sjeboyce 5 · 0 0

this is what you do. you propose to her. tell her that you dont want to get married now. you want to wait till after college. and when you get a job and you can support her THEN you want to marry her. tell her that she has alot of time to think about it. and dont just spring the question. give little hints throught the day. and take her out to dinner. make it romantic.

2006-10-15 13:57:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

NO,You have only been together 2 mons!You are totally not going to last so Do whatever

2006-10-15 13:27:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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