I mean, is skill in bed pretty much something that comes naturally or that he needs to figure out on his own or have you been able to teach a guy that was willing to learn?
2006-10-15 13:16:10 · 13 answers · asked by pamgissa 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you can't teach them persay but yes tell them what you like or what you want give it time relax and enjoy and let them try the things they want for you ONLY if ure comfortable if ure not then it wont be enjoyable like i said relax!
2006-10-15 14:13:19 · answer #1 · answered by brittney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore the old saying that you can't teach an old dog new tricks. It is a lie you can teach them as long as they want to learn!!!
2006-10-15 20:39:21 · answer #2 · answered by Sexy-Lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok.
my present boyfriend..was a total virgin until i came along..and its just weird..after i started opening in that subject and i started the whole thing..i bassically woke the beast in him.. you can actually teach a guy and all you gotta do is tell em where and how..
sometimes guys have it in them but they just havent shown it to any women cuz their shy..but if you really feel like you dont know anything..jus open up to the girl if you guys are in that situation..tell her that you dont know much of anything ..and seirously id rather take a guy who doesnt know much because that means there were no girls in the past to compare me with.
2006-10-15 20:39:52 · answer #3 · answered by stefani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yal you can teach the willing...but some guys think they are great when they are really terrible in bed! them you can't even talk to about it because they don't want to! some men don't even care about pleasing the women , if she don't get hers when he did ...that is just her fault.
2006-10-15 20:29:47 · answer #4 · answered by ~just_jd~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well here is the "secret"... Great lovers are the ones who pay attention to you.. i.e... if he's going down on you-- he will pay attention to your body and moaning etc and really pay special attention to what you like. They are unselfish lovers... i.e. .. pleasing you, turns them on etc etc...
So if things arent going well.. then you need to talk or whatever-- say "hey try this".. don't attack them or put them down-- just spin it in a more positive light-- like "hey baby why don't you try this..." COmmunication is the best thing in a relationship =) Without it- the relationship will die.
2006-10-15 20:25:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have chemistry with the partner you are with, the sex should be good whether he's experienced or not. Sex is about the emotions you feel during it too, not just the physical pleasure. Tell him what you want, they don't pick up on hints very well!
2006-10-15 20:24:01 · answer #6 · answered by DaRkViXeN 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I taught him.
But he was 21 and I was 30. They are very teachable at that age range.
The older they get, the more delusional they are.
2006-10-15 20:59:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Teach him, teach him, teach, him if you want it done right! Everyone is not the same. Take him where you want him to go!! Have FUN.
2006-10-15 20:22:23 · answer #8 · answered by DG 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
each person is different so if your partner is not doing something right unless you tell them they are not going to know,, so you have to tell your partner yes that feels good or no this feels bad please try something else,, most people are willing to be told and not take it offensive
2006-10-15 20:42:26 · answer #9 · answered by thanks to our brave troops, 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't you think that will be a little embarssing for a man not knowing how to pleaese his woman in the bedroom
2006-10-15 20:27:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋