I have shy bladder and I can't pee at a friends housee.This is my story the last time I tried ! I was at my friends 21 b-day party it was just me and him I am 22 and I told him I would come over and thro a little b-day party. Well of course we both got drunk ! He had 7 beers and I had about 4. Well when I tried to pee I couldn't pee at all I tried turning on the sink and I flused before i went and none of those worked.
2006-10-15 12:52:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
Relax, you're not alone. Many men, and I've even heard of a few women, suffer from this embarrassing nuisance. Let me tell you a funny story about myself, well at the time it wasn't so funny.
The first time I discovered that I had such a problem was at the tender age of seventeen. I had just enlisted in the Marines. Well, of course, I had to take the physical with many other young enlistees and as might be expected, we had to take the pee-test. They gave us all the specimen cups and sent us to the communal urinals with no privacy whatsoever. Guys on my right and guys on my left, and guess what, I couldn't pee. The harder I tried, the more frustating the whole ordeal got. I must have stood in front of that porcelain for the better part of two hours while the Navy Corpmen kept making me drink more and more water, thinking that this would help me. Finally, when I was the last one standing and had some privacy, my sphincter muscles relaxed and out came "Hoover Dam."
Look, it gets better, you kind of out grow it as you get older. As a younger man, I was (and still am) very sensitive and had somewhat of an inferiority complex. I never felt like I was as good as other guys and like I always had to prove myself. Infact, that's why I foolishly enlisted in the Marines while I was still in high school.
I'll be fifty in a few days and it's gotten much better simply because I don't worry about it anymore. But when I was your age, once I became aware that this was a problem for me, it bothered me to no end and I agonized over it, wandering what was wrong with me and why I couldn't stand up to that urinal like a man and make that porcelain ping with the best of them.
Even to this day, if I'm at work and my team leader pulls in next to me, I clam up. If it's just another guy, no problem. But the difference now is basically, I just don't give a flying f--- about it and can laugh about it. Believe me, many guys have this problem, they just don't want to admit it or talk about it. So relax, and go in a stall or wait until the coast is clear. Obsessing about it just makes it worse. Just go with the "flow." It'll come when it comes. God bless.
2006-10-15 13:58:19 · answer #1 · answered by soulguy85 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Google "stadium buddy." I think that's what it was called anyway. It was a thing that looked like a condom with a tube on the end, before you'd go somewhere like a stadium, or in you case a boat, you slip it on. The tube goes into a plastic bag that straps to your leg under your pants so that you can just go whenever. When your done fishing you can excuse yourself to a bathroom and dump the sack.
2016-03-28 10:42:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Happens to me too. There are lots of theories as to why this happens, but I think it;s fear of someone hearing you pee. I've taken to whistling and doing a bank shot (not directly into the water but off the inside above the water). Hope you can figure it out.
2006-10-15 12:59:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Military physicals and drug testing can be nightmares for those who are inhibited in that function, you need to understand the problem and desensitize yourself by relaxing when you are in a public bathroom. Strangely some people can urinate effortlessly in from of an audience, they are totally uninhibited when it comes to letting go because that is the way they are hard wired.
2015-12-26 05:00:54 · answer #4 · answered by Boheme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats not so bad I had a cousin-in-law who was in the hospital for over 7 days and would not pee or poop until he got home he just wasn't compfortable doing so...but if for you it's because you think someone may hear you pee or something don't worry about it everyone pee's its natural just don't try so hard
2006-10-15 12:55:18 · answer #5 · answered by *CiTsJuStMe* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Must be psychological. Try to not think about your shy bladder and it might work next time.
2006-10-15 12:54:14 · answer #6 · answered by chrstnwrtr 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
happens to me also, but only in public bathrooms. I have to use a stall or i just cant go...
i just close my eyes and concentrate!!!!
2006-10-15 12:54:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is not a question you are just telling us something. Just Imagine yourself peeing all over everyone there and them all cheering you on and loving the fact that you are able to pee and it should get things flowing
2006-10-15 12:54:27 · answer #8 · answered by websquirrel2002 2 · 0⤊ 5⤋
gah, i hate that
go 2 ur happy place and make it come out
2006-10-15 12:53:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Go to a urologist, if there's a problem, he will find it.
2006-10-15 12:54:42 · answer #10 · answered by Chi_Indy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋