2006-10-15 12:43:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Sociology
I know I'm not a guy, but I had to respond to this question because I went through this when I was younger. My step-dad forbid me to see my boyfriend and it was so difficult. We managed to stay together all through high school, though.
Just seeing each other in school sucked, but once my step-dad realized that we really liked and cared about each other, he started to ease up. My boyfriend was a few years older and had a car, so my step-dad immediately thought he only wanted one thing from me.
I have a few suggestions for ya...first, don't try to be dishonest and deceitful; that is, don't encourage your girlfriend to sneak around and lie to her parents to get to see you. That will only make things worse. Second, is there a reason why her dad doesn't like you? Did you do something? If not, call her dad and ask if you can sit down with him (man to man) and talk about the situation. That is a start. Good luck to you. If you really care about your girlfriend, don't give up; try to find a way to gain her dad's trust. Be a man and do the right thing.
2006-10-15 12:55:11 · answer #1 · answered by Moxie Crimefighter 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I really liked the girl and the girl really liked me I wouldn't care what the dad thinks.
2006-10-17 01:32:24 · answer #2 · answered by loot 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
MLM has the right answer man. She said it best go talk to him and don't go behind his back.
2006-10-15 20:01:57 · answer #3 · answered by Joey R 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would try to talk to the father.
family is very important to me and her family not liking me would bug me. its a strain on the relationship.
2006-10-15 19:51:03 · answer #4 · answered by feelie20 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋