do you wait for her?or leave her be?coz she says she doesnt want to lose me but shes treating me like crap.but i dont want to lose her either.
2006-10-15 12:26:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I wouldn't stick around to be treated like crap. Make other friends, do your own thing and when she come running with b/f troubles, decide then if you want to resume your friendship, or not.
2006-10-15 12:33:02 · answer #1 · answered by yolkyolk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get yourself a boyfriend! Thing is, espescially in new relationships both partners will want to spend as much time together as possible. It's natural. And yes, you will be left out, or become the 3rd wheel so why not find yourself a half decent guy to be with. You'll probably enjoy having someone other than your friend and intemacy can be a good thing too. Which you can't really have wit your mate.
Oh and anyone who says "boyfriends will come and go, but friends are forever". Think about it, who are you gonna spend the rest of your life, and perhaps have children with. One of your future boyfriends or your friend?
2006-10-15 19:31:16 · answer #2 · answered by Die Cocksucker 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A friend should never leave you for her boyfriend. She's proving to you that he holds more importance to her than you do. Boyfriends will come and go, but friends are forever. If she can't get her priorities straight, you're better off without her. Don't allow her to make you feel as if you're on the back burner.
2006-10-15 19:29:40 · answer #3 · answered by cree siempre 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you should realize that even though she is your best friend she has to have other people in her life too ..like a boyfriend and other friends ......... get some other friends that you can hang out with while she is spending time with him , and if you make plans with other people and then she wants to hang out with you dont break your plans for her
2006-10-15 19:32:08 · answer #4 · answered by ptmamas 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont wait around for her. if she wants to choose her boy over her girl that should tell you she isn't a great friend.
2006-10-15 19:28:58 · answer #5 · answered by koukla 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should tell her about how you feel about her treating you like crap. definitely tell her. that would be the best result
2006-10-15 19:30:50 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋