I found a womans phone number on his cell turned out to be someone that 100% didn't know him. I feel stupid for accusing him but I also have doubts that hes keeping something from me should I quit being insecure of keep my eyes open.
2006-10-15 12:25:25 · 26 answers · asked by wildrose 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Trust is required to make a marriage work. Yup, we all know that many married people aren't trustworthy. Yes, many cheat. But, we trust OUR partners. Or, we get divorced. Now, trust doesn't mean blind- so we don't ignore subtle signs either. Things like lipstick stained collars, panties in the back seat, motel matches, and sudden spurts of unusual travel DO make spouses worry. But, anybody can get a wrong number.
2006-10-15 12:45:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you call the number? I would. Maybe it's not what you think? But maybe it is, who knows. It could be just a missed dialed number, check later and see how many time this number is called, that will give you your answer.... You must of had some reason why you looked at his cell. Just remember that your first intuition is always right. Just be cautious and don't let your guards down. If your 100% committed in a relationship then you should have no worries. Good luck with the investigation
2006-10-15 19:41:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't trust him then the relationship is as good as over anyway. You didn't say if he is just a Lover or your Husband. If he's your husband keep your eyes open but don't accuse him of anything unless you're sure he did something wrong. And any smart man that has more than one woman, won't let you go through his cell phone calls anyway.
2006-10-15 19:32:51 · answer #3 · answered by Daddy Big Dawg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should always keep your eyes open and be aware but also if he has not done anything to say that he has or will be unfatihfull then you need to trust him and give him a chance as living life waiting and accusing him will be wasted time in both of your lifes. And if you keep showing him that you dont trust him, then you may actually push him away to the point where he is unfaithful. Going from what you said my opinion is you shoudl be happy and enjoy your relationship rather then ponder on what could happen.
2006-10-15 19:31:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust and communication are very impotant in a relationship. If you cannot trust him maybe you should talk to him and tell him why you don't feel you can trust him and let him know exactly how you are feeling. If you don't talk to him and he feels you are watching his every move and accussing him wrongfully this will undoubtedly cause no end of problems in the relationship. Talk to him. If he has cheated before he will know that obviously it will take time for you to gain back his trust. If he hasn't cheated before and a previous partner has maybe you should address the fact that its your own insecurities. Not all men are animals. Try talking to him and hopefully you can both work on the prolem/issue together.
2006-10-15 19:34:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was the number from someone that called or was it in his phone book. Its possible that someone made a mistake, it happens to me sometimes and when I call it back they swear they didn't call me but there's the number in my phone right. If its in his phone book then hey something in fishy there and it ain't fish. I'd keep my eyes open because a woman's intuition mostly never steers her wrong.
2006-10-15 19:35:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You called a cell number from his phone? What are you thinking?
That is the most distasteful maneuver I've heard of in a while.
If you have a suspicion with him ,ASK HIM. There is some woman at a business office somewhere going His wife is some kind of snoopy biitch.
2006-10-15 20:02:11 · answer #7 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to become insecure, keep being insecure. Pretty soon he'll figure as long as he is going to be in trouble anway, then he should do something.
Seems to Dr. James Cool here that you need to give him one mighty sweet kiss and one huge apology. What's going on girl - why are you checking his cell? Is this something from your past?
Isn't he providing you w/ enough assurance - or the kind you need? Have you told him what you need?
2006-10-15 19:29:39 · answer #8 · answered by Joe Cool 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy is a unhealthy emotion. Talk with him, share your fears in a way that is not accusing, but more on the line of needed some pick me up from him.
What will be, will be. Being miserable and insecure just wastes your energy.
2006-10-15 19:28:27 · answer #9 · answered by LucyLinnae M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you feel like you really have any reason to be insecure about that?
Here are some warning sides:
1. he gets defensive
2. he is short with you
3. He disapeers without a trace
4. He smells like someone else
5. begins to act different
6. Short of money
You can always suprise him and do his laundry and search for recipts to restaurants that have a BIG bill on them.
2006-10-15 19:30:22 · answer #10 · answered by b-rad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋