She told my sister and I to only call her Nana or our maid or such. She told us that when are dad came home from Taiwan she'd move out and only come to care for us when he is at his job in Taiwan. I also really miss my dad since he is always away. But mom forgot about that and changed her mind. But what if she says it again and doesn't change her mind?
2006-10-15 11:56:57 · 15 answers · asked by Rubee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The will of God can be hard to understand. You should learn to accept it.
2006-10-15 12:30:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your mom sounds very unhappy and I don't think it has anything to do with you or your sister, but your both getting the blunt of it. I'm so very sorry that she has said something like this to you. Your mom needs to get some professional help. It sounds like she is depressed and angry. There must be something going on between your dad and her. Something she doesn't want the two of you to know about. But she is hurting you in the process. Which is so very wrong. Tell her how much she hurt you when she said this. Tell her that you are concerned that she will say it again and do it. Talk to her with all these feelings you have bottled up inside. She needs to know that her words hurt you deeply. There is something going on between your mom and dad, but she is involving the both of you by hurting you. I hope when she said she changed her mind that she also said she was very very sorry. Without an apology, that would be hard to get over. Bless you...
2006-10-15 20:39:00 · answer #2 · answered by older&wiserforit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been in so many agruments with my mom and the last few ones she told me to never speak to her again and to pack my crap and for me to move out and she said many other things, but once I apologized and got over however she felt she talked to me again and continued on like nothing was wrong, even if we had a fight and 2-3 days later we made up. I'm pretty sure she will feel bad for what she said and will change her mind. I hope everything works out.
2006-10-15 19:35:04 · answer #3 · answered by jessica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mom didn't forget about it. The pain/hope is what caused this episode.
a) You are not responsible for creating or fixing whatever is happening between your mom and dad.
b) Parents are (little known fact) human. Sometimes they blow, well, actually they need to in order to relieve stress.
c) Sit back and chill for a time. Then try to find the kernal of truth in what she said - there will be one, sometimes more.
2006-10-15 19:25:03 · answer #4 · answered by Joe Cool 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What happened that made your Mom say this?
Was she frustrated with you? It doesn't make the words right but-adults have to deal with alot of things outside of taking care of the family. With your Dad away- maybe she was even more frazzled.
Are you helping your Mom out? Or are you a pain in the butt dragging her down?
2006-10-15 19:01:27 · answer #5 · answered by Mommyk232 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think that this is unfair. you and your sister have got to be great people. your mother doesnt realize it. it is time for you to speak up! if she does anything abusive such as physical or verbally, report it! you DONT deserve to be treated like that.
2006-10-15 19:00:12 · answer #6 · answered by pepsigirl_1992 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your mom is screwed up.
2006-10-15 20:34:22 · answer #7 · answered by sheeny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's mean... Talk to her.. I bet that is a hurting feeling to hear that from your mom
2006-10-15 19:01:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is so sad... your mom should see a doctor.
2006-10-15 18:59:10 · answer #9 · answered by vzzhappy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs therapy.
2006-10-15 18:59:23 · answer #10 · answered by lady01love 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋