i have a guy friend i really like him but he's not ready to be in any relationships right now and i'm not trying to force him to be in one but there is something between us so it hurts me but there's nothing i can do.....how can i get over it? it's driving me crazy
2006-10-15 11:36:38 · 9 answers · asked by mrs. MJ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
There is no point pushing a guy cos you will be pushing him away. Enjoy him as a friend and if something is happen it will. At least you know that there will always be that friendship. But give him a bit of space for him to clear his head and work out what he wants.
2006-10-15 11:42:03 · answer #1 · answered by Emily 101 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
By the sounds of things, the two of you do have feelings for each other. But as you said, he isn't ready to take your relationship to the next level, at least not yet. If you love this guy enough, hold on and stand by his side as his friend until he is ready.
2006-10-15 11:51:13 · answer #2 · answered by Phil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's cliche' but time heals all wounds. I keep telling myself that because I am going through something like that right now. Try to keep busy.
2006-10-15 11:41:34 · answer #3 · answered by twitchflinch 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
consult a psychiatrist or family consuling, timing heals everything and the answer is within you to find the correct one, you just need guidance.
2006-10-15 11:40:36 · answer #4 · answered by southernboy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just become really good friends, hang out all the time, hopefully it should fall into place from there, just be gald ur not like my and be gay and fall for the str8 guy
2006-10-15 11:46:58 · answer #5 · answered by mattyboi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shygril are you sure this man isn't involved in a relationship. try to occupy yourself with other hobbies.
2006-10-15 12:13:06 · answer #6 · answered by MISTY KISER 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Geez. Didn't baby boomer parents teach their kids anything from the 60s?
Honey....If you cant be with the one you love, love the one you're with.
2006-10-15 11:49:45 · answer #7 · answered by lucyanddesi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
having contact with him doesnt help...it makes it harder, but time does heal everything
2006-10-15 11:44:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
patience...eventually he will go out with you, and if he doesn't its his loss because he had a chance.
2006-10-15 11:44:49 · answer #9 · answered by Me Being Me 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋