trying to conceive?

Question

I have been trying to conceive for the past 2 months i know it isn't long but he really really wants this baby since he has tired for 6 years and nothing. He is a heavy drinker and I have a lot of health problems. I've had 2 kids unexpectely without even trying but both were very complicted pregnancies. We have had intercourse before and after ovulation but i am still worried about not being pregnant. My last period was sept 22 and it lasted until sept 30, but it was very irregular. Not like a normal period. On sept 30 we had intercourse and for the next week and a half i bleed like crazy. My sister says maybe i am preg. would that be a sign or is she wrong. Lately I have been feeling sick to my stomach all the time, always thirsty and peeing a lot. I get a lot of cramping and i don't know what to think. i keep track of my periods and when it gets close to my period i get really tender breasts within 2 weeks beand this month nothing and i am due for it in 2 weeks. Should I wait and see

i am supposed to go see the doctor next week should i just get a pregnancy test and see. And what are my chances of conceiving if he is a heavy drinker and has tried for so long but nothing

okay for the one who says to get fixed..the reason i have heatlh issues is due to a stomach problem you know they call them ulcers the only other problem i have is when i get pregnant i get anemic nothing so bad that i would need to get fixed. And he isn't that much of a drinker that i would worry about having a child with him, he has a good job and is very caring and so what if he drinks once or twice a week when he isnt working.

Answer 1

You don't need a lecture on the consequences of having a child when he is a drinker and you have health issues. But, you need to stand up and tell him that the two of you aren't in any condition to bring another person into the world.
As for your question, take the HPT and see what it says. When you go to the Dr next week, ask the Dr what his/her opinion of you having another child is. Also, have the Dr do a blood test to see if you are pregnant. If you aren't pregnant, count your blessings. Then go get fixed. Good Luck

Answer 2

Not to be rude but why have a baby from a heavy drinker thats scary??? Try a test and see what the results are.

Answer 3

if the test says no then get him in u so u can try again but if i says yes then go an dsee dr so u can maybe have a less complicated pregnancy

Answer 4

Get clinical opinion frm Doctor.

Answer 5

I think you both should get checked out. If all else fails, maybe I can help.*wink*

Answer 6

i would wait to see a doctor