If i like my friends boyfriend but i dont tell her and always want them to be together from the bottom of my heart then not telling her about my feelings is wise or foolish?Is this showing true friendship or cowardness?
P.s:my feelings towards this guy is basically admiring and no intentions of getting in to a serious relationship.
2006-10-15 11:28:42 · 11 answers · asked by homosapien 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I would leave it like it is, don't tell. Now if she evers ask you, what do you think of my boyfriend? You can tell her I admire him because or for whatever reasons.
2006-10-15 11:32:52 · answer #1 · answered by Boricua Born 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way! Don't ever tell her. It would have no positive result other than you feeling less guilty. In a year, maybe neither of you will still know this guy, but she would always remember the time you told her you liked her boyfriend.
2006-10-15 18:30:34 · answer #2 · answered by Miro 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me it sounds like your standing on the fence btw good friend and romance with your friends boyfriend. Its important that you come to terms with which side of the fince you're in, cuz if your certain its good friend and that you only admire him, try and keep that way. becuz if your not going to persue it then forget it. Whats the point of causing tension btw. you and your friend when ultimately you dont want him romanitcally.
2006-10-15 18:38:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you ? 10 - 15?
What difference do you think it will make.
Did you think it might strengthen your friendship being honest with your friend?
We sure don't know!
2006-10-15 18:36:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very, very wise to say nothing.
Telling her would accomplish nothing other than to perhaps make her suspicious of your intentions when you talked to him.
2006-10-15 18:31:32 · answer #5 · answered by Road Warrior 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell her.Why would u tell her.All that would do is make trouble between u and her.It would be foolish to tell her.
2006-10-15 18:38:50 · answer #6 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her what you told us. If she's a true friend, I think she'll understand.
2006-10-15 18:31:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep it to your self
Nothing will be gained with telling her except that she will start to mistrust you
2006-10-15 18:30:26 · answer #8 · answered by Blondie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then just forget about it.
2006-10-15 18:30:19 · answer #9 · answered by Webballs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on
2006-10-15 18:47:00 · answer #10 · answered by AA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋