well first of all i don't want anyone saying stuff like think about cus i have and im just so confused,pleez take this seriously. one day i was at my friends house and i don't quite remember everything but somehow we ended up with our shorts off in his bed( i know it sounds weird sorry) i was only 7 and he was about nine or ten can't remeber we moved so we started rubbing or privates together but we weren't hard,then we took turns putting out privates in each others butts that's all we ever did and i guess i was enjoying it. but then i didn't know what gay or straight was i have had many girlfriends since then and ive been in love but as i started seventh grade i met a friend who i think i may have a crush on even though i don't like the thought of being gay cus i love girls it makes me wonder what if im gay or str8 but he acts like he is curious because he like to playfight with me in the lockerrooms and stare at me but he has a girlfriend and he's popular and alot of girls like him.
2006-10-15 11:07:37 · 11 answers · asked by Lil olD mE 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
i think he may be curious too cus he has invited me at sleepovers i think i should accept because i have thought about it and i wanna kno if i expiriment with him now that i know all the facts wil i feel the same way as i did when i was a kid or will i know if im str8 or gay! i've heard manytimes that it's not normal but i don't want to be gay i like girls and so does he but im getting different vibes frome him than all of my other male friends he has asked me if i'm gay playfully, and ive said no i have a high voice and everyday im trying to act manlier so my friends don't tease me any more can u help me plz!
2006-10-15 11:11:56 · update #1
p.s i am only 13 4 those of u who are wondering
2006-10-15 11:18:36 · update #2
by the way olga the skankola's opinion doesn't matter
2006-10-15 11:23:56 · update #3
First of all, how old are you now? It's perfectly natural for children at 7 to explore their bodies, and other kid's bodies. That's not gross or disgusting, so don't let anybody tell you that. You're just learning how your body operates. I don't know you, so I don't know how you react to this person, but I think it may be safe to say you're bi. And there's nothing wrong with that either.
2006-10-15 11:12:55 · answer #1 · answered by You Don't Know My Name 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Stop trying to decide if you are one or the other. At your age, you do not need to make such an effort.
It is perfectly natural to be curious about the same and opposite sexes. Some people are more curious than others. It does not mean you are one or the other.
Hormones are a funny thing in the early teens. You can't really trust your own judgement.
Sometimes the gay community is much more accepting and accommodating to those people who are honestly just confused.
Take it easy, don't do anything you are not sure about, and if you do anything at all, with anyone - wear protection. good luck!
2006-10-15 11:35:36 · answer #2 · answered by firehorsetwo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At age 7, you're too young to know. Later you may have some bisexual fantasies. Honestly, you may be putting too much pressure on yourself and your friends to know one way or the other. Let yourself gain some maturity before you feel you have to decide. Many folks who think they might be gay end up figuring it out that they're not. Many others eventually decide they're really gay. If you're still wondering when you turn 17 or 18, consider seeking some counseling. My guess, though, is that you'll know by then.
2006-10-15 11:20:50 · answer #3 · answered by NHBaritone 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best way to save yourself any unnecessary uncertainty is to avoid trying to define your feelings. Gay, straight or bi is just people trying to come to terms with sexuality. I guess you could say trying to pigeon hole it so everything fits nice and easy into a box. However the reality of it is that sexuality doesn't fit into a nice neat definition, yours is no different in that respect. Save yourself the grief, stop trying to define your feelings and get on with living your life the way you feel is right. The rest will all just come naturally.
2006-10-15 11:14:55 · answer #4 · answered by waggy 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Take a deep breath...
My best advise to you is to stop trying to define your sexuality. You are young and curious about life. Experimentation does not make you gay, straight or other, it just means you are curious and are exploring. Be open to letting yourself feel how you feel. Be comfortable with yourself as a person, this will work itself out.
2006-10-15 11:25:27 · answer #5 · answered by Morley 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
somewhat some gay adult men like women's boobs for some reason. and you assert you 'hate vagina'..? are you able to call a in the present day guy that thinks that? there is not any longer something incorrect with being gay.
2016-12-13 08:52:45 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound very confused....leave the girls and the boys alone for awhile....give yourself some room to really think about your true feelings.
2006-10-15 11:12:56 · answer #7 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree with Waggy. My best male friend put to me like this one day, "I'm not gay, straight, or bi. I have the ability to love anybody, regardless of their gender."
2006-10-15 12:40:07 · answer #8 · answered by Becca 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you have a wet dream are there women or men involved. thats pretty much a first clue when you are still young.
2006-10-15 11:11:58 · answer #9 · answered by Daniel M 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Only you can anwer that...don't stress over this, it will all work out in time.
2006-10-15 11:12:56 · answer #10 · answered by Lipstick 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋