i met this girl and fell in love right from the start and after we talked for a while i thought she felt the same way so i got up the balls to ask her out and she said yes and all the next week i was out of school cuz my grandma died so when i came back i was still pretty depressed about it and so i didnt talk to anyone much and i apologized to her for kind of ignoring her and later on she said she wanted to just be freinds because she didnt think it was a good idea for her to have a boyfriend cuz she had alot going on but mabee one day we would talk again ilove her more than any thing and cant stop thinking of her should i just give up and try to forget her?
2006-10-15 10:35:00 · 5 answers · asked by street_dog_123 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
NO! what happened was, in your absence, she started the question the way she felt. She probably does have alot going on and while she was doing all this..she was seeing other couples who are ALWAYS together. What went through her mind was "we can't be together like that...this won't work". Don't give up on her. Don't push "going out" on her..just hang out sometimes. Talk, have coffee, and have fun. Once she sees that you two can have that relationship, she'll come back. Good luck
2006-10-15 10:42:10 · answer #1 · answered by Katie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her what's going on in her life, and if you can help let her know how you feel and know it can't get any more real than that, if she doesn't want you in her life right now just let her know you won't wait around and give someone else your love that wants and deserves it, life's too short to wait around for someone so if she still doesn't want you in her life hey its her lost not yours and then you can make a nother girl happy!
2006-10-15 17:41:02 · answer #2 · answered by ~*Megan N MaRc~* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, in time she'll be ready. Let it all flow naturally and keep hanging out together. Love evolves...
2006-10-15 17:39:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play the pity card, your Grandma passed, poor you!
Tell her that's why you've been distant. Your sad.
Go for it!
The truth works!
2006-10-15 17:37:52 · answer #4 · answered by Chloe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is one loooooong sentence....
punctuation is really great, you should try it.
2006-10-15 17:41:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋