i have known this person for years...but i havent had the courage to have an actual conversation with this person..and this person has't talked to me either...we say hi and bye..but other than that..nothing...i need to talk to this person without feeling embarrassed or shy...
2006-10-15 10:32:18 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Talk to him straight on some subject interest to both of you. What isthere to feel embarassed. You dont loose anything by talking to him instead you may gain if he is also interested in you
2006-10-15 10:44:53 · answer #1 · answered by khayum p 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem. My friend, Alexis, from 2nd grade stopped talking to me after 5th grade. My best friend! We would always talk. Every weekend..everything. But we kind of drifted apart. I didnt call her, she didnt call me. Its over, I guess. But if I ever had the chance again, I would call her right away. It doesnt feel great to lose a friend. Think about that. You could lose this person, like I lost my 4 year best friend. Sure, Im okay. My best friend from when I was 2 goes to my middle school and has 1/2 of all my classes. Hi Tati, New bestfriend!
Dont look for replacements if you dont have to. Make new friends, and keep the old ones.
Together, make the memories last.
2006-10-15 10:41:15 · answer #2 · answered by Dominique-Duh! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say hi, bye !!! To me this itself is known as talikng correct me if I am wrong. Initially talks begin with these words. It would develop in to conversation only if your minds and mouth are open. I think you are in love with the person and thats what is bothering you so much at this juncture.
Be bold go to him and invite him for a tea party. Select some general subject which a common person knows like,taliking abouit interests,hobbies, current affairs etc would improve your
attraction for each other.
Good Luck.
2006-10-15 18:16:46 · answer #3 · answered by Mechie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that's the place the expression "strikes communicate louder than words" come into play. i think of that he's attracted to you yet by way of fact there is an extreme feeling that he feels, he's unable to specific his concepts and emotions. for this reason it appears that evidently as though he's shy to declare something. yet I do desire in the close to destiny, you will have the potential to create a bond the two by communication and likewise by physicalisation. the suited of success
2016-10-16 05:46:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in a similar situation once and then one fine day as soon as that person said Hi, i replied as follows - "Hey! I've seen u soo many times and we've never actually talked!" and then that person laughed, i laughed and we did have quite a long conversation...try it!
2006-10-15 11:35:55 · answer #5 · answered by dubaigirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you may feel embarrassed or shy, but if it means that much to you, go for it anyway...what have you got to lose? Better to go for it and see what happens, than pass up the opportunities and always wonder what might have been...
2006-10-15 10:36:39 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U must be knowing this person's hobbies and likings and dislikiings. just open with a casual question to him without taking his name but actuallypointedly at him. maybe this will start off a life long affair.
2006-10-15 21:13:21 · answer #7 · answered by viren k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you talk to them next, say "Hey, we should hang out sometime!" Get their number and call them to ask if they want to go grab lunch or rent a funny movie and hang out at your place, something really casual that gives you a chance to have a conversation. It works, really.
2006-10-15 10:37:26 · answer #8 · answered by kate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its one of those things that we all go through and we all grow out of eventually with practice as we speak more and more with people in public,if you work you need to speak to other people to get on with your job if you dont start with a counsellor and go from there in the end its all about coarage
2006-10-15 11:15:47 · answer #9 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start talking and see what happens.
2006-10-15 11:35:51 · answer #10 · answered by minootoo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋