i had many times sex with my bf without taking any protection 2 years ago!!he said that i can bring children in the world and that so i may not be pregnant and i shall visit a doctor!!that told me many months ago when we broke up!!i didnt go to a doctor and i wont go!!if i can make i will find out when i have a relationship!!can a man dump u because u dont make children??is very important thing??there is and the adoption!!
2006-10-15 10:26:41 · 10 answers · asked by Lady Santa 5 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
* he said that i can bring children .mistake sentence..
right sentence.he said that i cant bring children
2006-10-15 10:29:24 · update #1
i was 19.perhaps too young who knows!!
2006-10-15 10:30:50 · update #2
u think that i cant be pregnant?u think he is right?? or he was just wanted to hurt me??
2006-10-15 10:33:44 · update #3
Maybe God knew this was not the right man to have a family with? You need to find somebody who wants to be with you for YOU! not your ability to make a baby.
2006-10-15 11:03:28 · answer #1 · answered by MC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE IS hurting you. The most important thing in a relationship is LOVE. If it was true and you can't have children, of course you can adopt as you said.
BUT usually, when when a couple can't have children, the problem is in the father's sperm.
Please, don't be worried about this, because you are very young. Please work to develop your personality and your skills and work to be more prepared for the future. Also, please, try to get more friends (mainly women), to avoid thinking stupidities.
2006-10-15 17:54:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it was him that couldn't produce children. If he didn't want to stay and work things out then he wasn't worth it. I would go and get checked to see if you can have children, some people think it is very important to have a biological child, and if you can not have children it is fair to tell someone before you get into a serious relationship with them, and let them decide.
2006-10-15 17:36:59 · answer #3 · answered by tnmomof2as 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u tell the man up front that u are unable to have children then he should tell u upfront wether this is a problem to him. many men will not adopt because they want flesh of their flesh and could never raise another mans baby. lol
2006-10-15 17:30:40 · answer #4 · answered by Nora G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like a waste of space, be glad u had a lucky escape and find ure self some one nice.. PS start using protection, its not just about getting pregnant u know.
2006-10-15 17:31:28 · answer #5 · answered by theresa d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For people who want to have sex only for enjoyment without any strings of marriage in future, it is ok. otherwise anybodywith alegal marriage would liketo have his progeny
2006-10-15 17:31:34 · answer #6 · answered by khayum p 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound to young for sex.
2006-10-15 17:28:48 · answer #7 · answered by John16 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are better off with out the jerk. Don't do anything you don't want to.
2006-10-15 17:30:59 · answer #8 · answered by D J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to get an education first.
2006-10-15 17:34:38 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not ur fault if u can not give him children... all is GOD's will.
2006-10-15 17:30:31 · answer #10 · answered by Sonia K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋