I am blue eyed and blonde haired and I get hit on multiple times on a daily basis. I have guys talk crap and then ask me how my husband is doing.
2006-10-15 10:25:34 · 15 answers · asked by ? 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
to elaine..get over it, what an ignorant thing to say. i just want o know why and i am not looking for comments like that. I want a serious answer.....
2006-10-15 10:30:36 · update #1
I am not being vain or racist or anything like that? It bothers me cuz I am married and feel uncomfortable about it. White guys aren't as forward.
2006-10-15 10:33:00 · update #2
i am not singling any one out, this is who won't leave me alone!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-15 10:45:25 · update #3
It's called whore mongering, black men are jealous of white men because our wives love us and respect us, black women don't respect their husbands and are never openly affectionate with them as white women are. Just tell them, Trix are for kids little boy. It also can be a power trip for some of them.
2006-10-15 10:30:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 7⤋
Well I have Black male friends that date only White girls and this is what they say about it...A lot of Black men hear that White girls will do it all to their man. I've heard them say they talk to a White girls because they will give it up quicker than a black girl. A black girl usually plays so hard to get and Black men get tired of playing cat and mouse with them. I personally don't think this because I feel that there are promiscuous people of all races.
I do know that Black men are more bold when it comes to trying to get your attention and will try to see how far they can go. White men are not as bold. They are probably just trying to see if they can get some nookie from you. Just tell them you aren't interested in them and keep it moving.
2006-10-15 10:41:21 · answer #2 · answered by chocolatebabycakes 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I can't help, being a guy, except to say men will look, and a few will talk - to anyone/everyone.
Even wearing a box - will only accent another part of you, and men will still talk to you.
Most likely men are just killing time as they wait.
Have a huge stack of football/gun and other stuff on coffee table and maybe a CD of truck/car crashes on TV, and men will forget you, as they wait.
Wearing clothes that do not have cleavage will help, and cover your legs (slacks/pant suits). Review how you bend over at work, and have husband check for cleavage, upskirt night before going to work. Of course then you'll say "why do I have to change - change these men" - Men are not going to stop being men, even in the distant future...
Take their picture and write down what they say and make a "hit on wall of fame", this could either stop them or make them funnier.
If your really upset, change your responsibilities to a lonelier section in your company. (Stop dealing with people.)
2006-10-15 10:48:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Good grief, get over yourself..... Who cares?
OK little Mrs. prissybum, let's say for just 5 minutes that your blue eyed, blond haired white *** is getting hit on multiple times by "black guys"......
Have you reported this to your boss (someone who can actually do something about this)?
Have you discussed it with your husband?
By your tone my guess is you are not working at the corporate level or at a career, but in the retail or food service arena.
I'm not sure why you mentioned that you are a blue eyed blond except to give the reader some hint that you might have a prissy bum as well.....Don't we all have this picture of poor little ol you being tormented by the black men? No not me.......
Grow up and handle things like an adult....
2006-10-15 10:28:01 · answer #4 · answered by easinclair 4 · 2⤊ 6⤋
They probably believe that "blondes are more fun" - which is not always true.
Our society is still quite screwed up when it comes to stereotyping, and those customers of yours are merely generalizing; just as alot of people generalize about them (darker-skinned people).
Makes you kinda realize how awful it feels when people stereotype, doesn't it? Most of the time, it's purely an assumption, and unfairly at that.
2006-10-15 10:55:45 · answer #5 · answered by ¿What Now? 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Its obvious that they want to do you, All you need to do is ignore this some people don't care if a woman is married or not.
2006-10-15 10:32:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
1st, I agree with the some of the others, why is it that you singled out black guys hitting on you. Why don't you just say guys, instead of BLACK guys.
2nd, Just tell them you're married & ignore them.
& you could take some of what they say as a compliment. Well that's just if they say somethin nice like your pretty or somethin.
2006-10-15 10:42:00 · answer #7 · answered by No Kitty Cat for you!!! 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
They're trying to see how far they can go with you.
You're something to keep them from being bored.
Ease up and don't take it seriously.
2006-10-15 10:30:06 · answer #8 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm sure you get attention from white guys as well.
Why does it have to be black guys in particular?
I get hit on by white guys all the time, but you don't see me complaining.
Just ignore them.
2006-10-15 10:28:52 · answer #9 · answered by Mary C 4 · 2⤊ 5⤋
Change into a different t-shirt,not the one that says "oh,please look at me". Lots of us have blonde hair and blue eyes,is that supposed to mean something great and rare?
2006-10-15 10:32:12 · answer #10 · answered by Taylor29 7 · 1⤊ 5⤋